Zifukwa Zazikulu Zikuluzikulu Zakuwonongeka ndi Kuwononga Kwawo

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• Narcissism Yofunika Kuwerenga
• Zida Zama psychological a Narcissist Atha Kugwiritsa Ntchito

Narcissism imatha kufotokozedwa ngati chizolowezi chomadziona ngati wamkulu, woyenera, woyenera, kapena "wapadera," komanso kupeputsa, kunyoza, komanso kupeputsa ena kuti amve bwino za iwo eni. Munthu wabodzayu, wopitilira muyeso nthawi zambiri amabwera ngati wokokomeza, wamkulu, komanso "pamwamba pa ena" (wopitilira muyeso wankhanza), kapena woweruza mwakachetechete, wotsutsa, komanso wodziyesa wokha (wobisalira / wolowerera).

Zifukwa zopangira kunyoza kwamunthu kumatha kukhala kovuta komanso kosiyanasiyana. Mwa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, ziwiri mwazofala kwambiri ndi "bala lamankhwala osokoneza bongo" ndi "kudzisangalatsa." Pansipa pali kuwunika mwachidule, lililonse lochokera m'mabuku anga: Momwe Mungasamalire Mosamala Narcissists ndipo Upangiri Wothandiza kwa a Narcissist Kuti Asinthe Kulowera Kumwamba . Olemba narcissist ambiri amakhala ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zonsezi, ngakhale akudziwa kapena ayi.

Chilonda cha Narcissistic

Chilonda cha narcissistic chimatha kutsatiridwa ndi chokumana nacho chimodzi kapena zingapo zovuta pamoyo pomwe munthu amadzimva kuti ndiwosiyidwa, "wosavomerezeka," kapena "wosakwanira" monga momwe alili. Zovuta izi nthawi zambiri, koma osati nthawi zonse, zimayambira muubwana, ndipo zimatha kuphatikizira kukakamizidwa kwamabanja, chikhalidwe, komanso / kapena chikhalidwe cha wantchito kuti akhale wanjira ina. Wolemba zamatsenga amatenga mawonekedwe achikhalidwe, mosiyana ndi zenizeni, kukondedwa, kulandiridwa, ndi kulemekezedwa, komanso kupewa zopweteka, zopweteka, komanso manyazi. Udindowu ungathandizenso wamisala kupondereza manyazi awo amkati komanso kudzidana.

Aliyense ali ndi zovuta pamoyo wake. Pomwe munthu wathanzi amakonda kuyankha pamavuto amoyo pogwiritsa ntchito luso lolimba (mwachitsanzo, mphamvu zamkati, kufunitsitsa kukula ndikukula, kutha kuphunzira kuchokera pazolakwa za munthu), wolemba nkhani amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito njira zabodza zolipirira (mwachitsanzo, chithunzithunzi chabe, chikhumbo chokhala pamwamba pa ena, chizolowezi chovomereza kawirikawiri zolakwa ndi zolakwa za munthu). Mwa kukhazikitsa zomwe adazilemba bwino, zabodza, wanamisili amayembekeza kuti apatsidwa chidwi, kuvomerezedwa, ndi kutamandidwa, ndikupewa zowawa zowonedwa ngati munthu wovulala, wopanda ufulu.

“Sindimafuna kuti anthu azindiwona ngati osauka. Ine ndi bwenzi langa tonse timayendetsa Mercedes. Munthu wabwino kwambiri paukwati wathu womwe ukubweranso akuyendetsa galimoto ya Mercedes! ” —Anthu Osadziwika

"Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, ndidayamba kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi zomwe abambo anga amandichitira ndili mwana ... ndimadzimva kuti sindingakwanitse." —Anthu Osadziwika

"Ndikwanitsa kuchita zonse." —Anthu Osadziwika

“Nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikuchita manyazi ndi (mbiri yanga), chifukwa chake ndidakwatiwa ndi bambo (waku mbiri ina) kuti azindimva bwino. Ndinkafuna kuwonetsa anthu zomwe sindili. ” —Anthu Osadziwika

Tsoka ilo, ngakhale anthu ambiri ochita zachinyengo amakhala ndi maudindo otsogola komanso achinyengo pofuna kuyerekezera kuti angavomerezeke kwa iwo eni ndi ena, zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowona, chifukwa akupitilizabe kulimbana ndi kudziona kuti ndiwosakwanira mkati, pomwe zizolowezi zawo zankhanza zimapangitsa ubale wowopsa komanso wowononga popanda .

Kukondweretsedwa ndi Narcissistic

Kukondweretsedwa ndi nkhanza nthawi zambiri kumachokera ku mabanja, chikhalidwe, maphunziro, ukadaulo, kapena / kapena chikhalidwe chomwe chimapangitsa munthu wankhanza kuganiza kuti "ndiwopambana," "wapadera," "wapamwamba pamwamba," "woposa ena," kapena "zosowa"; kuti azichita "momwe angafunire" komanso "osalandira chilango." Njira yodzudzulirayi imapangitsa wamisala kukhulupirira kuti ali ndi ufulu kulandira chithandizo chapadera, akuyenera kulandira mwayi wapamwamba, ndipo ayenera kupatsidwa mwayi wololeza.

Amati anthu ena amakhala ndi moyo wabwino kuposa ena (ndi kukhwima, kufanana, umunthu, ndikuyamika). Odzisokoneza okha, komabe, samanyamula bwino. Amaganiza kuti ndi "ufulu wawo wachibadwidwe" kuyimikidwa ndikukhazikitsidwa ndi ena omwe akuyenera kukhala pachiwonetsero chawo. M'malingaliro a wankhanza, dziko limazungulira iwo.

Chochititsa chidwi, ngakhale kuti okonda kuchita zachiwerewere amawoneka onyada komanso / kapena onyada kunja, chikhalidwe cha matendawa ndichakuti kudzidalira kwawo kumangodalira zokopa zakunja komanso zakuthupi. "Chipolopolo chonamizira ichi" nthawi zambiri chimapereka munthu wopanda tanthauzo pakatikati: munthu yemwe alibe cholinga chokhala ndi moyo (amangodzipangira zofuna zake zokha), amakumana ndi kusatetezeka komanso kudzikayikira (poyerekeza zambiri), ndipo amapsa mtima pomwe ena satenga msanga zosowa zawo (ukali wonyenga). Anthu ambiri okonda kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa sangakhale "anthu chabe," ndipo mmenemo ndiye gwero la kudzidalira kwawo kosafunikira - kuti popanda zokopa zawo "zapamwamba" m'moyo, amadzimva ngati anthu wamba.

Narcissism Yofunika Kuwerenga

Zida Zama psychological a Narcissist Atha Kugwiritsa Ntchito