Kodi Mukugonana Mokwanira?

Zamkati

• Kugonana Kofunika Kuwerengedwa
• Chisoni Cha Kugonana Sichisintha Mchitidwe Wogonana Wamtsogolo

Kugonana ndichinthu chomwe tonsefe timachita. Ngakhale pali zifukwa zambiri zogonana (onani zifukwa 7), ena a ife, pazifukwa zilizonse, timachita izi nthawi zambiri kuposa ena.

Ndi zolaula zomwe zikuchulukirachulukira, anthu, mwina, amadziwa zambiri zakugonana kuposa kale. Komabe, pakadali zambiri zambiri zabodza zoyandama mozungulira.

Kodi timagonana kangati?

Pali kusiyanasiyana kodabwitsa pazomwe anthu amaganiza kuti "kugonana" (mwachitsanzo, pafupifupi 45% ya anthu amawona kukondoweza kwa maliseche ngati "zogonana", ndipo 71% amaganiza kuti kugonana m'kamwa ndi "kugonana"). Kafukufuku wopangidwa ku Kinsey Institute adatsimikiza kuti pafupipafupi momwe munthu amagonana amasiyanasiyana mwina chifukwa cha msinkhu wawo:

• Azaka 18-29; 2.15 nthawi pasabata
• Azaka 30-39; Nthawi 1.65 pa sabata
• Azaka 40-49; Nthawi 1.33 pasabata

Kugonana ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe banja (komanso ubale wapabanja) limayendetsedwa. Chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwitsa kuchuluka kwa kugonana komwe mumagonana ndikuti mwakwatirana kapena ayi, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, mwakhala okwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji. Nthawi zambiri kugonana pakati pa okwatirana kumalumikizidwa bwino ndikukhutira m'maganizo ndi mbanja (kwa amuna ndi akazi), komanso kulumikizidwa molakwika ndi mwayi wosudzulana.

Kafukufuku wamkulu waku America adapeza kuti pafupipafupi okwatirana omwe anali okwatirana anali, amayembekezera, maulendo 1.25 / sabata - ngakhale ochepera anthu azaka 40-49 zakubadwa! Chodabwitsa china chomwe adapeza mu phunziroli chinali chakuti kuchuluka kwakugonana mkati mwaubwenzi kumakulirakulira pomwe mnzake wamwamuna sanachite zochepa pakhomo. Makamaka, amuna anali 'kulangidwa' pogonana chifukwa choyesera ntchito zapakhomo zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi akazi ... (?)

Kafukufuku wa 2016 wofalitsidwa mu The Archives of Sexual Behavior adapeza kuti pakati pa okwatirana omwe amakhala ku America, pafupipafupi kugonana, kukhutitsidwa ndi kugonana, komanso kukhutira ndi mabanja zonse zatsika pakapita nthawi. Nthawi zonse kuchokapo kunali kochititsa chidwi mzaka zoyambirira titakwatirana kenako ndikuzimitsa pang'onopang'ono.

Njira yosungitsira chilakolako ikhoza kukhala yosakanikirana m'chipinda chogona, ndikukhala ndi ziphuphu pafupipafupi. Ngakhale kuyerekezera kwina kumawonetsa kuti abambo amakhala ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa chotupa pa nthawi yogonana kuposa akazi, nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti azimayi amakhala ndi mwayi wopeza zotupa akamakalamba (amuna samakhala ochepa).

Kafukufuku wamkulu wothandizidwa ndi NBC News adapeza kuti pafupipafupi komanso kusiyanasiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndizomwe zimaneneratu zakukhutira ndi chilakolako cha abambo ndi amai.

Kodi nthawi zambiri anthu amagonana kumatako?

Ngati mudakhalapo nthawi iliyonse pa intaneti mwina mwawonapo zotsatsa za zolaula. Zotsatsa izi ndizabwino kwambiri kukupatsani lingaliro loti pafupifupi aliyense amakhala akuchita zachiwerewere. Izi siziri choncho, koma ziwerengero zingakudabwitseni.

Ndizosadabwitsa kuti ambiri (koma osati onse) amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adagonana nthawi ina. Lipoti lalikulu kwambiri latenga nawo gawo pazogonana komanso zolandila. Chomwe chingadabwe anthu ena ndikuwonjezeka kwa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe akugonana kumatako.

Kafukufuku wina adati chiyerekezo chotsika kwambiri cha azimayi aku America omwe amagonana kumatako nthawi zonse chitha kukhala pafupifupi 10%. Chiwerengero chonse cha anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amagonana kumatako mwina amakhala ozungulira 4-7x kuposa kuchuluka kwa amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ogonana kumatako.

Kugonana Kofunika Kuwerengedwa

Chisoni Cha Kugonana Sichisintha Mchitidwe Wogonana Wamtsogolo