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Padziko lapansi la ntchito, kuyambiranso ndiye njira yomwe timayeza momwe timapitira patsogolo. Metric iyi ndi imodzi mwanjira zochepa zomwe tingakulitsire kupambana kwathu, ndipo pali china chokhudza kukhala ndi muyeso wokwaniritsa zomwe zimawopseza ngakhale wopambana kwambiri.

Ili ngati galasi lomwe limawoneka kuti likuwonjezera mapaundi 20 pa chithunzi chanu. Kuwona chilichonse chomwe chakwaniritsidwa, ntchito iliyonse, maphunziro onse ndi ntchito zongodzipereka zomwe mudafotokozapo m'mawu 12 a Times New Roman omwe satenga tsamba lonse ndizokhumudwitsa. Poganizira za kulephera kwanu kumene, mumadzifunsa kuti, kodi zonsezi ndi ine? Kodi ndilidi wapakati?

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Zikuwoneka kuti tapanga malingaliro olakwika okhalapo pakati, ndipo chifukwa chake, timayesetsa kupewa izi zivute zitani. Kafukufuku wopangidwa paubwino komanso momwe timawawonetsera akuwonetsa momwe malingaliro athu asokonekera pamalingaliro. Ophunzirawa nthawi zonse amatchula luso lawo monga momwe zilili pamwambapa — yesani kujambula kuti belu likutuluka-koma kafukufukuyu apezanso umboni woti anthu amawona kuti "avareji" kukhala ofanana ndi kukhala ndi luso locheperako pang'ono m'malo mongotanthauzira mawuwo monga tanthauzo lake lenileni.

Ndi chizindikiro cha nthawi ino, komanso kufananizira anthu pantchito. Ndi mipukutu iliyonse yapa media media, kulumikizana kulikonse kwatsopano kwa LinkedIn, sitikumbutsidwa za zomwe takwanitsa, koma zomwe ena achita (werengani: zomwe simunakwaniritse koma winawake adachita). Pakadali pano, malo ena ochezera ngati Instagram kapena Facebook amatikumbutsa za magalimoto omwe sitimayendetsa komanso malo omwe sitinakhaleko. M'badwo waukadaulo watsegula maso athu ku miyoyo yomwe tiribe, ndipo mwadzidzidzi, aliyense wa ife akuwoneka wopanda pake poyerekeza. Zili ngati momwe buku lililonse pa shelufu yosungira mabuku mwanjira inayake ndi New York Times logulitsidwa kwambiri. Kodi zingatheke bwanji? mumadzifunsa nokha. Koma ndiye muyang'ane pansi buku lomwe mwasankha ndikuwona kuti ndilo lokhalo m'sitolo lopanda medallion lowala pachikuto. O, komanso ndi ndakatulo yochita masewera. Nthawi zambiri, timadzipangitsa tokha kumverera ngati moyo wathu ndi buku limodzi, losavomerezeka pashelefu.

Momwe kugwiritsa ntchito mapulatifomu ngati LinkedIn kukupitilizabe kukula, titha kudzimva kukhala osiyana ndi anzathu. Imposter syndrome ndikumverera komwe anthu ambiri amakumana nawo m'malo ampikisano, koma ngakhale zoulutsira nkhani zathu zakhala malo ofanizira omwe tili nawo kulikonse.

Achichepere ku United States omwe pano akuyamba kufunafuna ntchito apeza kuti akufuna njira yothana ndi chikhalidwe chakukhala ponseponse. Tidauzidwa kuyambira ukhanda kuti ndife osiyana, osiyana ndi ena, komanso otha kuchita chilichonse chomwe tikufuna, tafika kudera lomwe izi sizikugwiranso ntchito. Kuchoka paunyamata kwakhala kovuta kwa mbadwo uliwonse wam'mbuyomu ndipo kudzapitilizabe kukhala kotere, koma wokhala ndi metric yatsopano, yopambana, Generation Z iyenera kuphunzira kusinthasintha dziko lawo lamakono komanso ukalamba watsopano.

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Njira zothanirana ndi opitilira muyeso nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizapo, panthawiyi, kutenga maudindo ochulukirapo, maudindo, ndi ndalama zomwe mungachite, ndikuyembekeza kuthana ndi kudzikayikira. Ndipo kwakanthawi, zimagwira ntchito. Kuopa kwapakati kumatisiya tokha. Komano, timaganiza zowonjezera chinthu chimodzi pamuluwo ndipo zonse zimapita kummwera. Zili ngati kuti aliyense wa ife akuyenda pa makina athu opondera, ndipo timathamanga kwambiri pafupipafupi chifukwa zimawoneka kuti ndizotheka pang'ono mofulumira kwambiri. Ndipo nthawi yonse yomwe tikuthamangira pa makina opondaponda, chilombo chotchedwa averageness chikukuthamangitsani, mpaka mutangothamanga kwambiri kuti musayime ndikuthawa kumbuyo kwa chopondapo. Mukadali ndi mabala anu, mumakweranso pamtunda, kutsitsa liwiro, ndikubwerera kukatalikirana ndi chilombochi chomwe chimadumphadumpha.

Timakondanso mpikisano wamisala wopusawu. Monga ofera, timadzipereka tokha pazifukwa zopanda pake izi zodzipangitsa kukhala apamwamba kuposa anthu. Aliyense amalakalaka kukhala munthu amene amachita zonsezi - kusinthanitsa ntchito, banja, komanso moyo wabwino ngati china chabwino, nthawi yonseyi mukugwiritsa ntchito iPhone yatsopano yopanda mulandu ndipo mukungoyambiranso kuyambiranso kwanu malangizo. Ndipo kotero, timathamanga.

Yakwana nthawi yoti tigwire mabuleki pa sprint yathu ndikuchepetsa. Nthawi zambiri, timayesa kupititsa patsogolo ntchito zathu, koma kusintha kupambana kwathu kuchokera pazochulukirapo kupita pachikhalidwe ndi zomwe zingatithandize kuzindikira kuti kukhala ochepa, pamapeto pake, ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri.

Nthawi zambiri, mukafuna chinthu chomwe mwataya, simumachipeza; ndi pamene mumasiya kuyang'ana kuti zimawonekeranso. Ngati zonse zomwe timafuna ndichabwino kwambiri kapena kukhala opambana, tidzangopeza zokhumudwitsa. Osati zokhazo, koma sitingathenso kupereka kuthekera kwathu konse kuntchito zomwe zilipo ngati pali zochulukirapo. Pamapeto pake, sitikhala ocheperako pang'ono kuposa momwe tidalili tisanayanjanitse maudindo onsewa; tikhoza kukhala ochepa pazinthu zambiri.

Kutsika komanso kusagulanso muyeso yakuchita bwino kudzatipangitsa kutsanulira mphamvu ndi nthawi yathu pazomwe timaziika patsogolo, ndipo tidzakhala opambana chifukwa cha izi. Kuyambiranso komanso zoulutsira mawu zimatha kufotokoza, koma nthawi zambiri zimalephera kuzama. Komabe kuzama ndikomwe kumangokhala kopitilira muyeso.

Kudzipereka pakukhalapo pang'ono kungakhale, modabwitsa, momwe timadzipezera bwino komanso osangalala. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti sizongokhala kuti kupambana kumabweretsa chisangalalo; chimwemwe chenicheni chingadzetse chipambano chachikulu. Chifukwa chake mwina, ndi nthawi yoti tisinthire patsogolo zomwe tiyenera kuchita.