Zifukwa Zisanu Zapamwamba Zokulandira Makhalidwe Aakulu Asanu

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• Makhalidwe Ofunika
• Zoona Zokhudza Kusokonezeka Kwa Umunthu

Takulandilaninso! Munkhanizi, tikufufuza zabwino, zoyipa, komanso zoyipa zamayeso amunthu. Pakadali pano, ndalemba zina zomwe a Myers-Briggs (MBTI) ndi Enneagram ali ndi mafunso okayikitsa, chifukwa chiyani anthu nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zotsatira zawo, ndipo adayambitsa Big Five, mtundu wasayansi wamakhalidwe (ngati simunatero kale, mutha kudziyesa nokha pano). Chigawo chomalizachi chidzafotokozera chifukwa chomwe Big Five imachita bwino ndikulimbana ndi mayesero ena.

1. Adapangidwa pogwiritsa ntchito njira zasayansi.

Mosiyana ndi MBTI ndi Enneagram, omwe machitidwe awo adachokera ku mafilosofi osayesedwa m'malo mowonera anthu, Big Five ndi malingaliro omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuwafotokozera adapangidwa potengera kusamala, kuwona kwa asayansi. Carl Jung, katswiri wamaganizidwe omwe malingaliro ake adalimbikitsa MBTI, anali wama psychoanalyst yemwe adasintha malingaliro ake okhudzana ndi umunthu kukhala taxonomy; Mwanjira ina, adapanga dongosolo lokonza umunthu womwe umagwirizana ndi malingaliro ake osayesa ngati amafotokozeratu umunthu wa anthu. Ofufuza omwe adapeza Big Five adatenga njira yotsutsana ndikulola kuti deta iziyendetsa momwe amamvera mayendedwe amunthu.

Ena mwa kafukufuku wakale kwambiri adasanthula lingaliro lotanthauzira: ngati pali zina zomwe anthu amasiyanasiyana, ndipo ngati kumvetsetsa kusiyanasiyana ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse ndikuyanjana ndi anthu, chikhalidwe chilichonse chikhala chikupanga liwu mchilankhulo chake kufotokoza chilichonse mwazomwezi . Pali mawu pafupifupi 4,500 mu dikishonale ya Chingerezi omwe amafotokoza mikhalidwe - malingaliro osasintha, malingaliro, ndi machitidwe. Pogwiritsa ntchito kuyerekezera kwa iwo eni ndi ena pazikhalidwezi pogwiritsa ntchito njira yowerengera yomwe imatchedwa factor analysis, yomwe imagwirizanitsa pamodzi kutengera kulumikizana kwawo mwamphamvu, ofufuza adapeza magulu asanu akuluakulu ofanana omwe amafotokoza kusiyanasiyana kwathu. Kenako adayamba kupanga ndikuyesa malingaliro kuti afotokozere momwe timapezera izi.

2. Zowonjezera zili bwino kuposa magulu.

MBTI ndi Enneagram zimakupatsirani umunthu lembani - gulu losiyana mosiyana ndi mitundu ina. The Big Five ndi umunthu mikhalidwe , kapena mawonekedwe amunthu omwe amayeza poyambira kuchokera kutsika mpaka pamwamba.

Akatswiri azamisala amakonda machitidwe kuposa mitundu. Chifukwa chimodzi ndikuti mitundu ndi mitundu ya mikhalidwe yambiri. Kulongosola kwa mtundu wa ISFJ kumaphatikizapo makhalidwe monga chete, odalirika, ndi oganizira. Izi zikuyimira magawo atatu osiyana a Big Five - kuwonjezera, kusamala, komanso kuvomerezeka - komabe zonse zimalumikizidwa mgululi. Masikelo Aakulu Asanu amawayesa padera komanso mosiyanasiyana. Komanso, chifukwa mitundu nthawi zambiri imakhala ndimikhalidwe ingapo, pamakhala mitundu ya umunthu, ndipo munthu amatha kudziwona ali m'mitundu ingapo.

Kuphatikiza apo, njira zamtunduwu zimawaika anthu mopambanitsa, pomwe kwenikweni, mikhalidwe yaumunthu imayimilidwa bwino ndikupitilira, ambiri a ife pakati kuposa kumapeto. Izi zikuwonetsedwa m'mene amawerengedwera Akuluakulu Asanu, ndimafunso ogwiritsa ntchito poyenda pang'ono osati mtundu wosankha mokakamizidwa.

3. Amatha kuwonetsa momwe mwasinthira.

Ndi mtundu wamunthu, ndizovuta kapena zosatheka kuyeza umunthu wanu nthawi zosiyanasiyana ndikupeza momwe umunthu wanu wasinthira. Mukayang'ana kumbuyo nokha zaka 5, 10, kapena 20 zapitazo, mutha kuwona njira zina zomwe mumasiyana. Nthawi zina kusintha kumeneku kumakhala kosazindikira, ndipo nthawi zina kumakhala kwakukulu. Kafukufukuyu amathandizira "anecdata" iyi; Kuphatikiza pa njira zapadera zomwe mumasinthira panokha, anthu amakonda kusintha m'njira zomwezi akamakalamba. Kutha kwa mitundu ya umunthu kuwerengera zosinthazi ndizokayikitsa.

Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidatenga MBTI, inali pafupifupi 2004, ndipo ndidalemba ngati INTJ. Ndingakuuzeni njira zenizeni zomwe ndasinthira zaka 15 kuchokera pamenepo — zina zazikulu, zina zazing'ono. Komabe, ngati ndikayesanso lero, nditha kapena sindingawone kusintha komwe kukuwonekera pazotsatira zanga. M'ndandanda yoyamba, tinakambirana za momwe MBTI imakupatsirani mtundu; Mwachitsanzo, ngati mungapeze paliponse theka lakumtunda, mumalandira E, ndipo theka lotsikiralo, ndili I. Kutengera kuchuluka komwe ndidapeza, nditha kuwoloka kulowa gawo la E, kapena ayi. Ndizovuta ngakhale kuti kusintha komwe ndidakumana nako sikungatengeredwe konse ndi mtundu wanga. Koma ngati yalembetsa kusintha, mwadzidzidzi nditha kuwoneka ngati munthu wosiyana kotheratu.

Makhalidwe a umunthu amasintha bwino kuposa mitundu. Poyesa mikhalidwe ya munthu payekha, mutha kuwona ngati mwasintha zina ndi zina komanso kuchuluka kwake. Ngati ndapeza 50/100 potseguka kuti ndikhale woyamba ku koleji komanso 72 lero, ndikutha kuwona kuti ndachulukirachulukira. Makhalidwe anga ena atha kusintha nthawi imeneyo, munjira zazing'ono kapena zazikulu, kapena mwinanso ayi.

Poyang'ana mawonekedwe anga, ndikutha kuwona ngati, monga anthu ambiri, ndachulukirachulukira, chikumbumtima, komanso kukhazikika m'maganizo kuyambira zaka 20 mpaka 35, kapena ngati ndili wofanana ndendende zaka zisanu zapitazo, koma chifukwa cha msinkhu wanga wotseguka. Kudalirika poyesanso kuyeserera kumakhala kolimba pakanthawi kochepa ndikuchepa pakapita nthawi, komwe kumayimira kusintha kwamunthu m'malo moperewera.

Makhalidwe Ofunika

Zoona Zokhudza Kusokonezeka Kwa Umunthu