Momwe Mungaperekere Kudzudzula Komangika: Malangizo 11 Osavuta Ndi Othandiza

Zamkati

• Malangizo ndi malingaliro amomwe mungapangire malingaliro kuti musinthe kuchokera pamalingaliro athu.
• Kudzudzula kopindulitsa ndi chiyani?
• Momwe mungapangire kutsutsa koyenera?
• 1. Khalani ndi chidziwitso cha phunzirolo
• 2. Onaninso momwe zinthu ziliri
• 3. Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi zabwino
• 4. Ganizirani nthawi yake
• 5. Ganizirani malo
• 6. Mtundu wa chilankhulo
• 7. Limbikitsani zolinga zanu
• 8. Lolani mwayi wobwereza
• 9. Sungani kamvekedwe ka mawu
• 10. Zindikirani kupezeka kwa munthu winayo
• 11. Ganizirani zomwe mnzake angathe kuchita

Malangizo ndi malingaliro amomwe mungapangire malingaliro kuti musinthe kuchokera pamalingaliro athu.

Kudzudzula kopanga ndi gawo lofunikira pakulankhulana modzipereka. Pamene titha kufotokoza bwino lomwe malingaliro athu, kukhala achifundo kwa ena, titha kupanga kutsutsa koyenera. Inde, ndi njira yovuta.

Munkhaniyi tiwona njira zomwe tingatsatire kuti titsutse pazomwe achita, momwe akukhalira kapena magwiridwe antchito a munthu winayo.

Kudzudzula kopindulitsa ndi chiyani?

Njira yopangira kutsutsa koyenera imayankha pazinthu zingapo zofunika kuziganizira, koma maziko a malingaliro onse pazomwe zingachitike kukonza china chake adzakhalabe achifundo nthawi zonse zomwe muli nazo za munthu winayo.

Tikaganizira za kukula kwa munthu wina, mdera lililonse, timangofuna kuti munthuyu athe kukulitsa kuthekera kwawo, ndipo chifukwa cha izi tiyenera kufotokozera zomwe machitidwe awo angasinthe (kuchokera Maganizo athu).

Chifukwa chake, kutsutsa ndi zolinga zabwino, ndikofunikira kuti titha kudziyika tokha m'malo mwa winayo ndikumva momwe zinthu zilili momwe iwo akuwonera.

Sikuti ndikofunikira kungoganizira zotsatira zakusintha, chinthu chomaliza, komanso kulingalira mphindi yomwe kusinthaku sikunachitike : nkhawa zotani, kusowa chitetezo komanso ziyembekezo zomwe winayo ali nazo? Kodi angatsutsidwe bwanji mosapita m'mbali?

Momwe mungapangire kutsutsa koyenera?

Nawa maupangiri angapo ndi upangiri wamomwe mungapangire kutsutsa koyenera moyenera.

1. Khalani ndi chidziwitso cha phunzirolo

Kuyankhapo kanthu kena kamene sitikudziwa sikokwanira konse, m'malo mwake, m'malo mongowonjezera, tidzakhala tikutsitsa.

Chofunikira kwambiri musanadzudzule munthu ndikuti muwonetsetse kuti muli ndi lamulo lochepa pamutu womwe mukayankhepo. Ngati sichoncho, kupereka malingaliro anu mwanjira imeneyi zitha kuwonedwa ngati zosokoneza zopanda pake komanso kuwononga nthawi.

2. Onaninso momwe zinthu ziliri

Musanapereke malingaliro anu pokhudzana ndi magwiridwe antchito a munthu, ndikofunikira kuti muwone zomwe ndi zomwe zimakhudza zotsatira zomaliza. Mwanjira imeneyi, mukudzudzula kwanu kopindulitsa mudzatha kupereka zambiri zenizeni pazinthu zomwe munthuyo akuyenera kusintha.

Mwachitsanzo, munthuyo atha kudziwa kale kuti sakuchita bwino ku koleji, koma izi zimachitika makamaka chifukwa chosowa bungwe kapena luso lophunzirira koma chifukwa chongogwira ntchito masana ndipo alibe mphamvu zotsalira kuti aphunzire .

3. Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi zabwino

Mukamakonzekera kudzudzula ena moyenera, cholinga chake ndikuti musangoyang'ana mbali za munthu kuti akudzudzuleni, koma onetsetsani kuti mukuwonetsera zabwino zawo. Izi zimathandizira kuti pakulimbikitsanso chidwi cha winayo kuti apitebe patsogolo.

4. Ganizirani nthawi yake

Tiyenera kukhala munthawi yake pamene tikutsutsa zabwino. Ndikofunika kuti tiganizire mphindi yomwe tiwonetse malingaliro athu kwa enawo.

Nthawi zina pamafunika kudikirira nthawi yoyenera kuti tisakhale opanda ulemu.

5. Ganizirani malo

Monga ndi mphindi ino, tifunikanso kuwunika ngati malo omwe tili ndi oyenera kwambiri kuwunikiranso zomwe tikufuna kufotokozera wina za momwe amagwirira ntchito.

Lingaliro ndiloti timatha kulimbikitsa kuti tichite bwino, osapanga zovuta.

6. Mtundu wa chilankhulo

Mawu omveka ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse. Tisasiye malingaliro aliwonse mlengalenga, chifukwa izi zitha kubweretsa kusamvana. Tiyenera kukambirana, mfundo ndi mfundo, zomwe timawona ndi malingaliro athu ndi ziti.

Sitikufuna kupanga kukanidwa, koma chomangira chodalirana ndi mutuwo.

7. Limbikitsani zolinga zanu

Ndikofunika kutsindika zomwe mnzake akufuna kukwaniritsa.

Ndibwino kukukumbutsani kuchuluka kwa zomwe mukufuna kuchita komanso kuti kuli koyenera kuyesetsa kuti mukwaniritse, nthawi zonse kuwonetsetsa kuti zolingazo zikwaniritsidwa kutengera kuthekera kwa phunzirolo.

8. Lolani mwayi wobwereza

Mukangomaliza kudzudzula kwanu kopindulitsa, khalani onetsetsani kuti mupatse mnzakeyo ufulu woyankha. Ndikofunikira kuti kulumikizana kukhale mbali ziwiri ndipo winayo alinso ndi mwayi wopereka malingaliro awo pazomwe munganene.

9. Sungani kamvekedwe ka mawu

Momwe timagwiritsira ntchito kufotokoza malingaliro athu zitsimikizira makamaka momwe zoyankhulirana zidzakhalire.

Sitiyenera kukhala achidani kuti winayo asadzione kuti akulemekezedwa. Kukhala chete ndi ife, kumakhala bwino.

10. Zindikirani kupezeka kwa munthu winayo

Pali anthu omwe sanapezeke kuti azitsutsidwa, ngakhale omanga monga momwe angakhalire. Poyamba, titha kuyesa njira yoperekera zifukwa zathu, koma ngati mutuwo sukuwalandira, ndibwino kuti tisamangokakamira kwambiri.

11. Ganizirani zomwe mnzake angathe kuchita

Dziwani ngati winayo ali ndi zofunikira kuti athetse vuto lawo, kapena ngati ndichinthu china chomwe sangathe.

Ngati nkhaniyo singasinthe momwe alili, pewani kumunena, ndipo ingomuthandizani ndi kumuthandiza momwe mungathere.