Kodi Kudzidalira Ndi Kudwala?

Kodi tingatchule chiyani chomwe chimasocheretsa ndikutilepheretsa ndipo nthawi zina chimakhala m'mabanja? Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe tingatchule china chomwe chimatsutsa kuyankhula kwa icho ndikulankhula za icho komanso chomwe palibe mankhwala wamba kotero, chimafalikira?

Ndizowopsa kutcha chidani chako kukhala matenda. Tikati zinthu ndi matenda omwe sali athupi lathunthu - kuwonekera m'malo mwake ngati malingaliro kapena zikhulupiriro, pomwe matupi athu amagwira ntchito mopanda kanthu, okhoza kukwera masitima ndikumenya mipira - otsutsa amatiimba mlandu wonyoza mphamvu ndi zowawa za matenda "enieni" enieni.

Otsutsa amachenjeza kuti timagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri "matenda" ndi "matenda" kuti tifotokoze kapena tikhululukire madera ambiri amakhalidwe omwe sanamvetsetsedwe.

Matenda amisala alipo, amatichotsera chifundo tsiku lililonse. Koma kodi kudzidalira kumayendetsa minda yonse yamigodi? Kuyambira muubongo, monga chikhulupiliro chakuti wina ndi woipa, woyipa, kapena woipa mwanjira ina, imadutsa paminyewa, ziwiya, ziwalo, mafupa - kukhala kapena kudziwitsa kapena anadzibisa ngati Matenda amthupi monga bongo, anorexia, kapena kusowa tulo.

Lingaliro lofunikira limachokera kwina, koma osati mkati. Palibe nyama yomwe imabadwa ikudzida yokha. Mitundu yathu imakhala yolumikizidwa kuti ipulumuke, yomangidwa kuti iphe (ikapanikizika), kuti itonthozedwe komanso chisangalalo. Koma enafe tidasokonezedwa ndi izi: Zikhalidwe zathu zoyambirira komanso zofunikira kwambiri zidabedwa, ndikusinthidwa.

Ndipo tsopano, ngakhale tidachita bwino kwenikweni, zilombo zomwe timaziwona tokha monga zaulesi pakati pazoona ndi zonama. Kupatula owapha ndi ena, chithunzi chachinyama, chankhanza nthawi zambiri chimakhala chosalondola, chosayenera, bodza.

Ndani amakhulupirira mabodza, ndipo chifukwa chiyani?

Ana amatero, mwina atatchedwa nkhumba ndi zododometsa ndi iwo omwe amawoneka kuti amawadziwa. Kapena, pomwe tidayamba kutengera makolo athu omwe amadana nafe. Kudzidalira, kukwera, kutsika kapena sing'anga, kumayamba kale ndi zaka zisanu.

Ndani winanso amene amakhulupirira mabodza? Zolemba. Zonyenga. Tidali ndi alendo omwe adatilowerera m'mabokosi amchenga kapena makanema ndikumenyedwa m'makutu mwathu Ansembe amamwa pee kapena Mwezi umapangidwa ndi tchizi , tikadakhulupirira iwo - osati poyamba koma patadutsa zaka makumi, kumamatira kuzong'onong'ono komweko moyo wathu wonse? Ngati sichoncho, ndiye ndichifukwa chiyani timakhulupirira bodza lowononga zonsezi, lomwe lingathe kutsutsidwa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zochita zathu?

Ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa tidali achichepere kwambiri pomwe tidadyetsedwa mabodza koyamba kuti tithane nawo. Kuyambira ali mwana, ubongo wamunthu umakula motere: kusonkhanitsa, kusindikiza ndikuyika njira zakuya zophunzirira zomwe zili kutanthauza Kutsiriza nthawi yamoyo: mawonekedwe ndi malamulo owonera, masewera, chilankhulo, kuwerengetsa, kulumikizana, chitetezo, kulumikizana ndi maso. Arpeggios adaphunzira ali ndi zaka zinayi akumvekera kwamuyaya m'zala. Akuluakulu omwe amakhala theka ladziko kutali ndi kwawo amaganiza m'zinenero zawo.

Kudzinyansitsa ndi chilankhulo changa, chophunziridwa pobadwa kuchokera kwa iwo omwe amaganiza kuti ndichokhacho. Pamene anzathu olankhula chinenerochi akumana, zimangoyakira ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri sitikudziwa chifukwa chake. Timagawana phewa ndi bodza.

Timagawana osadziwa kuti awa ndi bodza, kuti zotheka zina zilipo.

Kodi timadwala pomwe, tikayitanidwa kulikonse, tikukana - poganiza kuti omwe atiitanewo ndiopusa kapena amwano? Kodi tikudwala pomwe, kuneneratu kulephera, nthawi zonse timapewa kapena kusiya kapena kubera?

Kodi tikudwala pomwe "umboni" wosagwirizana ndi zomwe takwaniritsa, chithandizo chamankhwala ndi kuyamika - zachuluka kwazaka zambiri, ngakhale - sizimachotsa chidani koma zimangoyambitsa mavuto ake, monga mabandeji?

Pamene tingakonde kutuluka panja ndi zovala zosafananira kuposa kudziwona tokha pamagalasi, kodi tikudwala?

Makina ndi madera omwe amatanthauzira madalitso kukhala osayenera sayenera kusokoneza miyoyo yabwinobwino. Zimatidabwitsanso. Ngati sichiri matenda, ndiye chiyani? Matenda? "Chikhalidwe?" Ma Quirks?

Sitimadziyesa tokha ngati omwe tingagwirizane nawo, makolo, komanso abwenzi koma ngati ma leeches, nkhuku, ndi oafs.

Nthawi zina sitimadzivulaza tokha koma enanso. Mopeputsa zomwe tikutanthauza kwa iwo, osakhulupirira zonena zawo zachikondi, timang'amba mitima yawo pomwepo. Ndili.

Uku sikuti ndi kuchonderera kuti muchitire chifundo, koposa pomwe pali zolakwika. Kunena kuti "Ndikudwala" kumapweteketsa pang'ono kuposa kunena kuti, "Ndimayamwa." Kunena kuti "Ndikudwala" ndikofewa komanso kwamphamvu kuposa kunena kuti, "Ndine chilombo" kapena "Tsalani bwino."