Gawo limodzi la Achinyamata aku America Amaphunzira Zogonana Kuchokera pa Zolaula

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• Kugonana Kofunika Kuwerengedwa
• Chisoni Cha Kugonana Sichisintha Mchitidwe Wogonana Wamtsogolo

• Ndi 39 okha omwe akuti aziphunzitsidwa zogonana, 17 mwa iwo amafuna kuti ikhale yolondola pa zamankhwala, ndipo 19 akuti iphunzitse kudziletsa kokha.
• Maphunziro okwanira okhudzana ndi zakugonana ayenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso chopewa kutenga mimba ndi matenda, komanso maluso ochezera komanso zomwe zimagwirizana. Pafupifupi theka la achinyamata komanso achikulire samalandira zidziwitso zokhudzana ndi kugonana kuchokera kulikonse.
• Pafupifupi kotala la achinyamata adati amadalira kuonera zolaula kuti aphunzire zogonana. Izi ndizowona kwa anyamata achichepere kuposa atsikana, omwe amaphunzira za kugonana kuchokera kwa zibwenzi zawo.
• Zithunzi zolaula sizothandiza kuti munthu azigonana moyenera.

Nditatsala pang'ono kutha msinkhu m'ma 70s oyambirira, Ohio idalamula makalasi ophunzitsira za kugonana ali mgiredi lachisanu ndi chimodzi. Sukulu ya parochial yomwe ndimapitako imatsatira lembalo, ngati sichoncho mzimu.

Iwo anakonza zoti pakhale “Ana aamuna ndi Abambo Usiku Wosatha.” Abambo atadikirira mchipinda chimodzi, bambo Tom adatsogolera ana awo kukalowa kuchipinda china kuti akatipatse nkhani. "Amuna," adatero. Inde, anatiyitana amuna. "Amuna, kodi mumadziwa kuti kugonana ndi chiyani?"

Ndi mwana uti wazaka 12 amene angavomereze kuti samadziwa zogonana, makamaka pamaso pa anzawo? Tinayang'anitsana mwamantha ndipo tinagwedeza mutu.

"Zabwino," atero a Tom. "Tiye tikambirane zachipembedzo m'malo mwake."

Kumapeto kwa usiku, anapatsa bambo aliyense kabuku. Anatiuza kuti: “Tsopano amuna, pemphani abambo anu izi mukakonzeka.”

Patangopita masiku ochepa, ndinalimba mtima ndikupempha bambo anga kuti ndiwapatse kabukuka. Idalongosola njira yothetsera ubwamuna m'njira zosabala, zamankhwala. Nditawerenga, sindinadziwe zogonana.

Dziko Lophunzitsa Kugonana Silinasinthe
Zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi zapita, ndipo maphunziro a kugonana mdziko muno sanasinthebe. Malinga ndi wofufuza zaumoyo ku Boston University Emily Rothman ndi anzawo, 39 okha ndi omwe amalamula kuti aziphunzitsidwa zogonana, ndipo mwa iwo, 17 okha ndi omwe amafunikira kuti zikhale zolondola pazamankhwala. Kuphatikiza apo, 19 imalamulira "kudziletsa" maphunziro okha.

Mwachiwonekere, achinyamata ambiri ndi achinyamata akupeza chidziwitso cholakwika kapena ayi konse. Nanga achinyamata aku America akuphunzira bwanji zakugonana? Ili ndiye funso lomwe Rothman ndi anzawo adasanthula m'nkhani yomwe adasindikiza posachedwa mu Zosungidwa Zokhudza Kugonana .

Monga akunenera Rothman ndi omwe amagwira nawo ntchito, maphunziro azakugonana amaphatikizapo zambiri kuposa kungonena za kutulutsa ubwamuna. Zimaphatikizaponso chidziwitso cha momwe mungapewere mimba ndi matenda-kupatula kudziletsa.

Kuphatikiza apo, achinyamata ayenera kuphunzira maluso okhudzana ndi kugonana. Maluso awa amaphatikizapo zinthu monga momwe mungalankhulire chidwi ndi kukambirana malire, kuphatikiza momwe mungazindikire zomwe sizingachitike. Kuphatikiza apo, amafunika kumvetsetsa zakugonana ngati chinthu chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa. Ndipo pamapeto pake, ayenera kuphunzira momwe angavomerere kukana mwakugonana, ndiko kuti, kulemekeza malingaliro a mnzanuyo komanso osazitenga ngati chipongwe.

Kuti mumvetsetse za magwero azidziwitso omwe achinyamata amadalira kuti aphunzire zakugonana, Rothman ndi anzawo adasanthula deta kuyambira achinyamata 600 azaka 14 mpaka 17 komanso kuyambira 666 achichepere azaka zapakati pa 18 mpaka 24. Ophunzirawa adayankha mafunso pazinthu zomwe amadalira kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza kugonana, kuphatikizapo ngati adalandira zambiri zokhudza kugonana kuchokera kwa makolo awo. Adayankhanso mafunso okhudza kusungulumwa kwawo ndikukhala ndi zibwenzi zogonana komanso ngati anali pachibwenzi.

Achinyamata Samalandira Zambiri Zothandiza Kuchokera Konse
Chokhumudwitsa koma mwina chosadabwitsa chinali chakuti pafupifupi theka la achinyamata komanso achinyamata adati sanalandire chilichonse chokhudzana ndi kugonana kuchokera kulikonse. Mwa iwo omwe adati adapeza zodalirika zokhudzana ndi kugonana, magwero adadalira zaka zakubadwa komanso jenda.

Achinyamatawo anena kuti zambiri amapeza kuchokera kwa makolo awo kapena kwa anzawo. Ndi ochepa omwe adayankha mgululi akuti awonera zolaula kuti aphunzire zogonana. Kupeza izi kuyenera kuthana ndi mantha omwe makolo ambiri amakhala nawo okhudzana ndi achinyamata awo akuonera zolaula.

Achinyamata omwe adakambirana zakugonana ndi makolo awo adati ndiye gwero lothandiza kwambiri pazidziwitso. Komabe, iwo omwe sanakambirane zoterezi adati adapeza zambiri pa TV, m'magazini, kapena pa intaneti (koma osati zolaula) kuti ziziwathandiza kwambiri. Mwanjira ina, achinyamata amasangalala makolo awo akamakambirana nawo moona mtima za kugonana.

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