Kukumbukira Mpainiya Wamalimba Amayi Ndi Zomwe Anatiphunzitsa

Mu 1976, Shere Hite, yemwe adamwalira sabata ino ali ndi zaka 77, adagwedeza dziko lapansi ndikufalitsa kwake Lipoti la Hite. Ngakhale chithandizo changa chogonana, maphunziro, ndi mindandanda yodzaza ndi zolemba za zomwe adapereka pokhudzana ndi zachiwerewere komanso moyo wake, ndimaopa ochepa kwambiri omwe sanadziwe kuti anali ndani, kufunikira kwa uthenga wake, komanso zomwe adamva zowawa kuti afalitse uthenga wofunikawu kwa anthu onse. Izi ndikuti ndiyese kugawana izi ndikulemekeza ndi kulemekeza kukumbukira kwake ngati heroine yemwe ndimakhala pamapewa ake achikazi.

Zowonadi, mgawo la "Clistory" la buku langa, Kukhala Wanyengo, Ndalemba za Shere:

Ngakhale olemba ndi achikazi ambiri odzipereka achikazi adagwira ntchito kuti awonetsetse clitoris, ndikufuna kuyang'ana owerengeka ochepa chabe.

Choyamba ndi Shere Hite. Mu 1976, adagwedeza dziko lapansi ndikufufuza kwa amayi opitilira zikwi zitatu momwe adawona kuti ambiri samakhala ndi zibwenzi panthawi yogonana. Lipoti la Hite lidauza azimayi kuti zinali zachilendo kusakhala ndi chiwonetsero chogonana ndikuti, m'malo mwake, azimayi ambiri amafunikira kukakamizidwa kwachinyengo.

Pakafukufuku wakuya womwewo, Shere anali woyamba kufotokoza momwe akazi amadziseweretsa maliseche. Poyankhulana ndi Shere ndi ena awiri omwe anasintha zakugonana (Leonore Tiefer ndi Betty Dodson) pamsonkhano wa 2008 wa Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Shere adalongosola izi ngati zomwe amathandizira kumvetsetsa zakugonana. Iye anati, "[The Hite Report] ... inali ntchito yoyamba, ndipo ikadali imodzi mwa ntchito zokhazokha, mwatsatanetsatane m'mawu azimayi momwe amadziseweretsa maliseche kuti afike pachimake. Kwa azimayi ambiri, izi sizikuphatikiza maliseche, koma kutikita minofu osayimitsa malo amphongo kapena malo obisika amiseche yawo yakunja ndi dzanja lawo. ’

Potengera tsatanetsatane wa momwe akazi amasangalalira komanso kubwereza kuchokera Kukhala Wanyengo:

Pakafukufuku wake wodziwika, Shere Hite adafotokoza momwe akazi amadziseweretsa maliseche. Ndipo, n'zosadabwitsa kuti adapeza kuti azimayi amatulutsa zomwe amatcha "malo amphongo / maliseche." Pakafukufukuyu, azimayi ambiri, 73%, adachita izi atagona chagada; pafupifupi 5.5% atagona pamimba pawo; 4% podzipaka pa chinthu chofewa; 2% mwa kusisita maliseche awo ndi madzi oyenda (mwachitsanzo, kuyika maliseche awo pansi pa tepi ya bafa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito chosungira m'manja); ndipo 3% mwa kungokanikiza ntchafu zawo pamodzi mwakachetechete. Ena mwa amayi 11 pa 100 alionse samangotsatira njira imodzi kapena udindo; pomwe anali ndi njira yabwino, nthawi zina amasintha. Hite adapezanso kuti azimayi ambiri amayang'ana kwambiri zokopa zakunja, koma pafupifupi 12% nthawi zonse kapena nthawi zina amaika china chake mkati mwa nyini zawo. Mogwirizana ndi chinyengo komanso lingaliro loti ndizosowa kuti azimayi azichita zongolowerera pakungolowa, 1.5% yokha ndi omwe amadziseweretsa maliseche pokhapokha atayika china mkati mwa nyini zawo.

Mwina chofunikira kwambiri, Shere adapeza kuti akamaseweretsa maliseche, azimayi ambiri. Pokambirana naye pamsonkhano wa SSSS, adati, "Lipoti langa lofufuzira likuwonetsa kuti azimayi ambiri - opitilira 92% - amadziwa momwe angachitire chiwembu mseri, chifukwa chake" amayi "omwe ali ndi vuto la chiwerewere amangogawira izi ndi anzawo; ndi anthu omwe ali ndi Vuto, osati azimayi ... Zowonadi, ntchito yanga idawonetsa / kuwonetsa kuti pafupifupi azimayi onse amatha kufikira pamalungo mwa kutikita minofu 'molunjika' pang'ono.Pomaliza ndikuti azimayi sayenera kuopa kufotokoza momwe akazi amaganizira. ufulu wogonana munjira yawo. "

Shere adapeza izi osati pamafunso amafunso wamba komanso m'mawu azimayi omwe kapena zomwe New York Times Nkhani yokhudza iye yotchedwa "maumboni ovumbulutsa anthu oyamba." Ripoti la Hite ladzaza ndi mafotokozedwe azimayi pazochitika zogonana zogwirizana komanso zosakhutiritsa; Ndidagwiritsa ntchito zambiri zakale mu chaputala cha Kukhala Wanyengo kufotokoza njira zogonana mosiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika "kutsogola, kugonana, kutulutsa umuna, kugonana" zomwe ndizofala pachikhalidwe chathu zomwe zimasiya azimayi osakhutira ndikudabwa chomwe chavuta nawo. Ndakhala ndikuti makasitomala amawerenga maakaunti a anthu oyamba mu Hite Report kuti atsimikizidwe komanso kudziwa zambiri. Onse awona kuti ndi othandiza kwambiri.

Mwachidule, Shere adauza dziko lapansi kuti azimayi samachita chiwerewere pogonana, koma amatero chifukwa chakukondoweza komanso kuti kukondoweza kuyenera kuphatikizidwa munjira zogonana za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma chifukwa cha uthenga wopangidwa ndi sayansi, Shere adalandira zoyipa zazikulu. Wosewera adatcha "Report Hite" "Report Hate." Choyipa chachikulu, popitiliza kulemba pamutuwu (onani mndandanda wamabuku apa), adalandira ziwopsezo zakuphedwa chifukwa cha ntchito yake. Adakana kukhala nzika zaku US ku 1995, akunena m'nkhani ina mu Watsopano Statesman , kuti "Patadutsa zaka khumi ndikuzunzidwa ndekha komanso ntchito yanga, makamaka malipoti anga okhudzana ndi kugonana, sindinakhale womasuka kuchita kafukufuku wanga momwe ndingathere m'dziko lomwe ndinabadwira."

Nditasindikiza Kukhala Wanyengo mu 2017, ndinayesa kulumikizana ndi Shere kuti ndithokoze kwambiri pantchito yake yolemetsa, koma samayankhabe mauthenga aku US, chifukwa chake sindinathe kumufikira. Sindinakhale nawo mwayi womuthokoza chifukwa cha mwayi woti ndiyime pamapewa ake akuluakulu, achikazi.

Openda angapo anafotokoza Kukhala Wanyengo monga "wopitilira muyeso." Bustle anati, "Dr. Mintz akutsogolera kusintha momwe angakhalire okhutira kwambiri pakumvetsetsa ndikumvetsetsa zikhalidwe zomwe zakhala zikugwira ntchito motsutsana ndi izi kwazaka zambiri." Izi sizoona. Ndinangoyesera kuti nditenge kusintha komwe Shere adayambitsa. Chifukwa chake, chonde, tiyeni tilemekeze kukumbukira kwa Shere Hite posaganiziranso lingaliro loti azimayi ambiri amafunikira kukondweretsedwa kwamankhwala kuti akhale ovuta kwambiri.