Kubwereza Miyambo Kuti Akhale Oyenera

Kumbukirani pamene mudali mwana ndipo munazindikira koyamba kuti moyo uli ndi machitidwe? Pamene kubwereza machitidwe kukukumbutsani kuti kugona motsatira nthawi yachakudya, ndipo mwina mungayembekezere TV yakumasana pambuyo pa omwe amakusamalirani atatopa komanso atasowa malingaliro azisangalalo?

Mukukumbukira chitonthozo cha miyambo yopita kukagona? Munamvera kangati (kapena kuwerenga kwa mwana) Usiku wabwino, Mwezi kapena Utoto wa mbewa kapena Injini Yaing'ono Imene Imatha musanayese (kapena kakang'ono) kubwereza mawuwo zitangowonekera zithunzizo? Ndipo kangati kwa miyezi ingati (kapena zaka) bukuli lidali kuwerengedwanso mawuwo ataloweza?

Miyambo ndi machitidwe angatonthoze. Amatha kutibweretsera chidziwitso, kutitsimikizira kuti tikudziwa zomwe zikubwera. Monga ndidanenera kale m'mbuyomu, itha kukhala njira yolumikizirana mwa kugawana, kudumphadumpha chisangalalo cha kuyembekezera, ndikumvetsetsa kuti pali zochitika zomwe zimabwerera moyenera mdziko lomwe lingawoneke ngati lachisokonezo. Kodi mutangodutsa tsiku limodzi lobadwa munayamba kuyembekezera tsiku lotsatira?

Kubwereza kwakukulu konseku kumachitika pachikhalidwe pomwe kalendala yalengeza kuti zochitika zamtsogolo zili panjira. Pamene kufuula kwakunja kwa tchuthi chomwe chikubwera, kuyembekezera kwathu "zolembedwa" (zomwe tiziyembekezera) zimayambitsidwa.

Kodi tidzavala chovala chiti pa Halowini? Kodi tidzakhala nawo pagulu lachinsinsi la Santa chaka chino? Kuphatikizidwa ndi maphwando a tchuthi? Kodi banja lathu lidzalandira imodzi? Malo athu antchito? Kodi tidzatha kugawana nawo zikondwerero mochepa kapena motambalala? Kodi munthu wofunikira adzasowa, mwina chifukwa cha mtunda, mwina imfa kapena matenda, mwina zatsopano zawo? Zikumva bwanji kupita patsogolo popanda iwo? Kodi holideyi itithandizanso kusungulumwa?

Malingaliro ndi malingaliro onse omwe amabwera nthawi yakutchuthi atha kutipeza ndi zovuta, kudzaza kuthekera kwathu kuti tiwone chidwi chake chocheperako. Chakudya chamasana chomwe chimayenera kukhala chosangalatsa chimatha kukhala cholemetsa; chisangalalo chosankha mphatso kwa munthu amene mumamukonda chingathe kuchepetsedwa chikakhala chintchito kapena, choyipitsitsa, bokosi loti mugulitsire kugula pa intaneti, kulumikizana kwakutali kwambiri kuposa kufunsa ngati m'bale wanu angakonde kununkhira kwa mafuta onunkhirawa kapena, mlongo wanu kumverera kwa sweti iyi kapena inayo. Momwe zamagetsi zimathandizira kukulitsa maudindo komanso kumasuka kuzikwaniritsa-nthawi yomweyo kutichotsera kufulumira kwa kuphika makeke kwa oyandikana nawo omwe timawakonda kapena kumanga nyumba yopangira tiyi ya ginger ndi zidzukulu, ndikumva fungo labwino momwe khitchini imadzaza ndi Kusakaniza kwapadera kwa ginger, nutmeg, ndi sinamoni.

Njira imodzi yosungira zisangalalo zam'maganizo ndi tanthauzo la mphindi ndikukhalanso ndi miyambo. Jill Le Grand, akuvutitsidwa kwambiri ndimomwe zimakhudzira mtengo wake wa Khrisimasi wokondana, adayamba kutsutsana. Kumbali imodzi, chaka chilichonse, amayembekeza kumasula zokongoletsa zomwe iye ndi banja lake adapanga kapena kusonkhanitsa mzaka, aliyense wokumbutsa zokumbukira zomwe adagawana nazo. Kumbali inayi, kutayika kwa mtengo wina, kuwonjezera pamtengo wake wakufa ndikukhala milu yazinyalala, pempho loti lisinthidwe ndi chinthu china chopangira zinthu zidayamba kumuvutitsa. Pulasitiki inkawoneka yoyipa kwambiri kuposa kudula komanso kuwola.

Atafunafuna njira ina, anafufuza kunyumba kwake. Palibe inali yofala kuposa mabuku omwe amasonkhanitsidwa paliponse. Panali milu yazunguliridwa ndi munthu aliyense yemwe anali atangowerenga kapena kukonzekera kuti awerenge, pamutu, wolemba, ngakhale ndi mbiri yakale pachikhalidwe kapena wachibale. Mashelefu ndi njira zopangitsira kusungira mabuku zinali paliponse. Zinenero zinagwera wina ndi mnzake mnyumba ya mabanja awiriwa.

Jill anayamba kugwira ntchito. Akuyenda mnyumba yonseyi, adalonjeza mwamuna wake kuti mabuku onse abwereranso m'malo awo atatha tchuthi. Ndipo adayamba kupanga mtengo kuchokera kuzinthu zosowa kwambiri, mabuku okondedwa omwe nthawi ina adachokera ku mitengo. Chaka choyamba, popeza adaphunzira kukonza nyumbayo ndikuikongoletsa ndi magetsi ndi zokongoletsa zawo, mtengowo udali umboni wokometsanso mwamwambo, ndikupangitsa kuti ukhale wogwirizana ndi nthawiyo. (Onani nkhani yanga ku BonjourParis, ndi chithunzi cha mtengo wa chaka chatha komanso nkhani yolengedwa.)

Chaka chino, podziwa zomwe akufuna kuchita komanso momwe angazigwiritsire ntchito, Jill adawongoleredwa pang'ono, kusanja mabuku kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito kukula ndi mitu kuti izikhala yosangalatsa kwa owonera onse, m'malo mongowoneka hodgepodge wa zinthu zowerengera zomwe adasonkhana chaka chatha. Zotsatira zake ndizabwino ndipo zimatsimikizira zomaliza pakukonzanso zinthu, zosawonongeka pang'ono, komanso kupititsa patsogolo miyambo yakale yomwe imabweretsa tanthauzo, kugawana, ndi chisangalalo.

Kodi mudasinthapo mwambowu munthawi yomwe mukukhalamo? Kodi mwaphunzira kumva malingaliro oti musunthire pomwe mwambo wakale umayamba kumva kuti mulibe komanso mulibe kanthu? Kodi mwamvetsetsa kuti kubwezeretsanso zinthu zatsopano kumatha kubweretsa zisangalalo zomwe zimaposa chisoni chilichonse chofedwa?

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