Funso Lachiwiri Lomwe Ndimapeza Ngati Katswiri wa zamaganizidwe

Nthawi zambiri ndimalemba za kudya mopitirira muyeso, koma lero ndikufuna kutsatira nkhani yanga yapitayi "Funso Limodzi Limodzi Lomwe Ndimapeza Monga Katswiri Wazamisala." Mmenemo ndinakambirana malingaliro olakwika omwe akatswiri azamisala amayenera kukhala odziwa bwino momwe akumvera bounce off iwo kuti asawatengere kupita kwawo. Ndinafotokozera chifukwa chake izi sizinali zoona, ndipo chifukwa chake timapeza bwino pakubwereketsa makasitomala miyoyo yathu ndikulola malingaliro awo kudutsa ife. Timakhalanso oyenera kuwunika-chifukwa ngati mukufuna kukongoza winawake moyo wanu, muyenera kukhala odekha kuti mutha kuwathandiza, ndikuti inunso ndinu oyenera, apo ayi inu chitani kumva kuvulazidwa ndi ulendowu.

Lero tipita mwatsatanetsatane za chachiwiri funso lodziwika kwambiri lomwe ndimapeza ndikakumana ndi munthu watsopano kunja kwa ofesi m'moyo wanga: "Mukundiyesa pompano?"

Mwachidule, ayi, osatinso momwe funsolo likufunidwira. Ichi ndichifukwa chake:

• Kusanthula wina pamalingaliro azomwe zimachitika pakufunsidwa ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri, kaya muofesi kapena kudzera pa telemedicine. Kuti ndisanthule wina moona mtima, ndiyenera kudziyika ndekha modekha, kusiya zosowa zanga, ndikufunsa mafunso angapo okhazikika kwambiri. Ndiyenera kulemba mosamala pazomwe zanenedwa ndikuyang'ana zokambiranazo panjira zodziwunikira, kuwunika zoopsa, ndi njira zothetsera mavuto. Sikuti zidutswa ndi zigawo za izi sizingalowe muzokambirana mulimonse kunja ofesi, koma mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe wofunikira kuti mupeze zotsatira zolondola komanso zomwe mukufuna simulipo. Mu moyo wanga, ndili yokhudzana, osasanthula.
• Kunja kwa ofesi, njira zambiri zamtengo wapatali zikusowa. Pokambirana kunja kwaofesi, ambiri mwa akatswiri azama psychology amadalira kuti awazindikire ndikuwachiza kulibiretu. Mwachitsanzo, kasitomala akafunsa, kukonzekera, ndi kulipira kukafunsira tsiku ndi nthawi, mutha kudziwa zambiri momwe amawonekera m'chipinda chodikirira (ngakhale zitakhala zenizeni), kaya zikuwoneka munthawi yake, bwanji zimatenga nthawi kuti ayambe kulankhula, komanso kufunitsitsa kwawo kuthandizana ndi nthawi ndi kapangidwe kake. Anthu ndi ovuta, ndipo malingaliro kapena machitidwe aliwonse atha kutanthauza china chosiyana mosiyanasiyana. Kukhazikika kosagwirizana pakufunsana kumabweretsa tanthauzo m'njira yosiyana kwambiri ndi momwe mungakwaniritsire mu lesitilanti, kapena nthawi yolira foni. (Pali chifukwa chomwe madokota amagwirira ntchito mchipinda chochezera m'malo mokhala kunyanja kapena kuphwando, mwachitsanzo, ndipo pali chifukwa chomwe akatswiri amisala amagwiritsa ntchito kufunsira mwalamulo.)
• Kuvuta kwa ubale wapamtima kumasokoneza nkhaniyi. Chifukwa maubale ndimakondedwe osinthasintha, ndikosavuta kusokoneza zosowa zanu, malingaliro anu, ndi momwe mumamvera ndi munthu amene mukucheza naye. Akatswiri azamisala samangokhala ndi mandulo omwewo kunja kwa ofesi vs. panthawi yolankhulana.
• Akatswiri a zamaganizo sangathe kuwona kwenikweni mkati mwa mutu wanu. Tilibe makina a X-ray omwe amatilola kuti tiwone zomwe mukuganiza komanso momwe mukumvera, kapena zomwe "zikulakwika" ndi inu. M'malo mwake, timadalira zolumikizana monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, ndipo, tangotenga malingaliro ophunzirira bwino tikamapeza zambiri (ndi zotengeka) kudzera munjira iyi.

Ngakhale zili pamwambapa, mutha kuzindikira kusiyana pakulankhula ndi wama psychologist kunja kwa ofesi motsutsana ndi munthu yemwe sanaphunzitsidwe pang'ono. Ngati mukusangalatsidwa ndi zokambirana za mzimu, zakuya, chabwino, ndili ndithudi mnyamata wako! Ndidasankha psychology ngati ntchito chifukwa ndimakonda chikondi kuposa ndalama, tanthauzo ndi cholinga kuposa zomwe zakwaniritsidwa kunja, mzimu kuposa mphamvu. Koma ndikukufufuza kunja kwa ofesi?

Ayi! Kupatula momwe zimakhalira aliyense nthawi zonse "amafufuza" wina aliyense. Tonsefe timafunikira kuwunika tikakumana ndi munthu ngati ali mnzake kapena mdani, zomwe angafune kuchokera kwa ife, kaya akutiweruza, komanso momwe tingachitire zinthu motetezeka komanso mwaubwenzi. Akatswiri azamaganizidwe mwachilengedwe mwabwinoko pamasewera amenewo, zowona, ndithana nawo. Koma mukukuwonongerani?

Nah. Ndinasiya zida zija kuofesi.

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