Amuna Akuluakulu Amakolo Opondereza - The Double Whammy

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Ngakhale ndikulemba mu Kodi Ndidzakhala Munthu Wokwanira? Kuchiritsa Ana Aakazi Amayi Onyengerera, makamaka inali yokhudzana ndi kafukufuku wokhudza azimayi, ndalandila maimelo ambiri kuchokera kwa amuna omwe amafunsa za zomwe zimakhudza amuna omwe adaleredwa ndi makolo onyenga. Makasitomala anga achimuna akuwerenga buku langali, komanso akufunsani zambiri. Panopa ndikufufuza m'derali ndipo mutha kuthandiza. Lowani kuti mufunsidwe mwachinsinsi pansi "Amuna Okha" patsamba langa lamabuku ku www.nevergoodenough.com.

Pa wailesi ya Good Enough Rocks, pulogalamu yathu yapadera yapawailesi ya ana achikulire omwe makolo awo anali osokoneza bongo, ndidafunsa wochiritsa mabanja Terry Real pa Novembala 13, 2010. Ndiye mlembi wa Sindikufuna Kunena Izi: Kuthetsa Chinsinsi Chachisoni Cha Kukhumudwa Kwa Amuna . Terry adalongosola za kukhumudwa kwachinsinsi mwa amuna ndi momwe zimawalepheretsa kuthana ndi malingaliro awo. Kukhumudwa kumathandizanso kuti abambo azikhala kutali ndi zowawa zawo zaubwana kapena zovuta zina zazikulu. Pakufunsidwa, sindinathe kungoganiza momwe ana aamuna a makolo amwano, ndizopusa kawiri. Choyamba, uthenga ... "Osalankhula zakukhosi kwanu" amachokera momwe timakhalira amuna pachikhalidwe ichi. Kenako chachiwiri ndi uthenga wochenjera koma wowononga kwambiri wochokera kubanja lankhanza womwe umalimbikitsa amuna kuti adzikane okha. Pomwe ife monga akazi, zibwenzi, alongo, ndi ana athu aakazi tikufuna amuna athu azikhala achisoni ndikulankhula zamkati mwawo, zovuta za izi zidafotokozedwa poyankhulana ndi Terry Real mwanjira ina komanso yakuya. Terry moyenerera anati, "Amuna safuna mipira ya abambo awo, amafuna mitima ya abambo awo." Ndipo amalankhula zakufunika kwakulera amuna amphamvu ndi amitima yayikulu.

Real adakambirananso za mkangano wake wosangalatsa ndi nthano yomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti anyamata ayenera kupatukana ndi amayi awo olera asanabadwe kuti asakhale azisangalalo. Uwu ungakhale mutu wabwino kwa Abodza Abodza! Real amanyalanyaza nthano iyi ndikuwonetsanso chikhulupiriro chake kuti uthengawu ndi wopanda ulemu kwa amayi. Monga tikudziwa, azimayi ambiri osakwatiwa komanso akazi okhaokha akulera ana masiku ano ndikugwira ntchito yabwino. Terry Real amatikumbutsanso kuti pomwe gulu lazachikazi lidayamba, panali nkhawa kuti ngati atsikana athu achichepere amalimbikitsidwa kukhala anzeru komanso oyenera komanso achigololo komanso osamalira, tili pachiwopsezo chotembenuza akazi kukhala amuna. Inde, tikudziwa momwe zinaliri zopusa. Ndili ndi nkhawa kuti nthano yolekanitsa anyamata achichepere ndi amayi awo olera akadali aang'ono, imakhazikitsa amuna osakhazikika kuti atayidwe msanga. Terry Real, ndi akatswiri ena amisala, amalankhula zowona kuti palibe kafukufuku amene amathandizira nthano yoti anyamata amakhala achichepere ngati ali pafupi ndi amayi awo.

Pambuyo pazaka makumi atatu zantchito yazachipatala pantchito zamankhwala amisala, chinthu chimodzi ndikudziwa ndichakuti aliyense amafunikira chikondi, kusamalidwa, kuthandizidwa, kumva chisoni, komanso kulumikizidwa. Kodi mwana angapeze bwanji chikondi chokwanira? Tonsefe timafuna kukondedwa komanso kukondedwa kwambiri. Osanenapo ngati tikufuna kuphunzira kukonda, Tiyenera KUKONDA ... kwambiri.

Zoyipa zakukhumudwa kwamwamuna zomwe zimaphatikizapo kudzipha kwakukulu, mavuto oyang'anira mkwiyo, nkhanza zapabanja, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso mavuto amgwirizano, zimafuna maphunziro owonjezera pamutuwu. Ndikukupemphani kuti mumvetsere pazakalezo Wailesi Yabwino Yamiyala ku www.nevergoodenough.com kuti mumve malingaliro ofunikira omwe adanenedwa ndi othandizira mabanja Terry Real.

Tikasaka, timapeza. Tikagwira ntchito, timapeza chithandizo. Tikasamala, timapanga kusiyana.

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Resource Website: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com

Buku: Kodi Ndidzakhala Munthu Wokwanira? Kuchiritsa Ana Aakazi Amayi Othandizira http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Bukhu Lamawu: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book

Msonkhano: Kuchiritsa Ana Aakazi Amayi Ochita Narcissistic Workshop. Konzani ntchito pakhomo panu nokha, malizitsani kuwonetsa makanema ndi ntchito yakunyumba: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/workshop-overview-healing-the-daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers

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Cholinga cha Mwana wamkazi: Gawo limodzi ndi Dr. Karyl McBride
http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/resource/daughter-intensives

“Kodi awa ndi mayi ako?” Fufuzani: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/narcissistic-mother