Kodi Ndinu Munthu Wamwayi?

Zamkati

• Mfundo zazikuluzikulu
• Kuyesa Mwayi
• Mwayi Wamtsogolo Ndi Wosagwirizana Ndi Zakale

Mfundo zazikuluzikulu

• Kudziwona wekha ngati mwayi kumalumikizidwa ndi chisangalalo chachikulu.
• Kukhala ndi mwayi m'mbuyomu sikungakupangitseni mwayi mtsogolo.
• Kuchuluka kwa mwayi ndikofunikira pamoyo. Palibe ntchito yolimbikira komanso talente yomwe ingabweretse kusowa kwake.

Fortuna, mulungu wamkazi wachiroma wamwayi, nthawi zambiri amawonetsedwa womangidwa m'maso ndikuyendetsa sitimayo. Akuyendetsa miyoyo yathu, ndipo akuchita izi mwakhungu.

Mwayi ndi gawo lofunikira m'miyoyo yathu. Kubadwira mbali yakumanja kapena yolakwika ya mayendedwe, kunyamula awa kapena majini ena muma chromosomes athu, kapena kutenga ichi kapena chimzake tsiku lowoneka ngati losafunikira, kudzatsimikizira tsogolo lathu. Sikuti aliyense amavomereza kuti: "Ponena za mwayi, mumadzipangira nokha," atero a Bruce Springsteen. Zowona pamlingo winawake, komabe ndikukayikira kwambiri kuti pali akatswiri ambiri ogwira ntchito molimbika kunja komwe omwe talente yawo sinatulukiridwe chifukwa sanakhale malo oyenera nthawi yoyenera. Mphatso yolenga komanso kulimbikira kumachita mbali zofunikira kwambiri munkhani iliyonse yopambana, koma mwayi wake ndiwofunikanso.

Kuyesa Mwayi

Popeza wavomereza kuti pali chinthu chonga mwayi, pali njira ziwiri zowunika momwe munthu aliri ndi mwayi. Choyamba ndikulingalira za mwayi womwe munthu wakhala nawo m'moyo mpaka pano. Mwachitsanzo, ndimadziona kuti ndili ndi mwayi. Sindimadzinyenga ndikuganiza kuti zabwino zomwe ndimawona m'moyo wanga zikadachitika mosasamala za mwayi.

Kuti ndipereke chitsanzo, ndinali ndi mwayi wopeza mnzanga kumzinda wachilendo kudziko lachilendo, ndipo zinangochitika mwamwayi. Ndinafika mumzinda umenewo nditapempha kuti ndikagwire ntchito yoyamba yomwe ndinawona ikulengezedwa pamabuku azachipatala sabata imeneyo. Ndinakhala dokotala wophunzitsidwa m'chipinda momwe amathandizirako ngati namwino. Kutsatsa kosiyana kwamagazini ena, kapena sabata lina, kukadanditengera kumalo osakayikira. Nthawi yomweyo, pakhala pali zochitika mu mbiri yanga momwe ndinali wopanda mwayi, koma ndizopweteka kwambiri kuzikumbukira.

Tonsefe takhala ndi mwayi komanso osakhala ndi mwayi munthawi zosiyanasiyana, koma sindikukayika kuti "mwayi" wonse m'moyo ukhoza kuyimilidwa ndi graph yofananira, momwe ambiri a ife tingapezeke pakati, odala ndi zochulukirapo kapena zochepa pamphindi.

Njira yachiwiri yowerengera mwayi ndi chikhulupiriro cha "mkhalidwe" wamwayi; Mwanjira ina, zabwino zonse monga malingaliro omwe sanakhudze zochitika zam'mbuyo zokha, komanso apitilizabe kudziwa zomwe zidzachitike mtsogolo. Anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti mwayi ndiwofunikira pamoyo komanso omwe amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi mwayi amakhala ndi umunthu wosiyana kwambiri. Kwenikweni, akale amakonda kukhala amanjenje komanso osasangalala kuposa otsirizawa. Ndi chinthu chabwino kukhulupirira mwayi wa munthu, komanso ndizopanda pake, monga chitsanzo chotsatirachi chikuwonetsera.

Mwayi Wamtsogolo Ndi Wosagwirizana Ndi Zakale

Zongotigwera ndi zopanda phindu ndipo zikupitilizabe kugwira ntchito mosasamala, zilizonse zomwe zitha kuchitika mpaka pomwepo. Wosewera wa roulette angaganize kuti pambuyo pamasewera asanu motsatizana motsatizana, spin yotsatira iyeneradi kugwera wakuda, kutsatira zomwe zatchedwa "Monte Carlo Chinyengo." Zachidziwikire, zovuta zakuda zimatsalira ndendende 50 peresenti iliyonse, komabe nthawi zambiri motsatizana mpira udafikira wofiira kapena wakuda. Pa Ogasiti 18, 1913, mpira udagwera wakuda nthawi 26 motsatizana ku Monte Carlo Casino (chifukwa chake dzina lonyenga). Zovuta izi zinali zochepa kwambiri, mwina osadabwitsa kuti otchova juga pamasino amatchovera kwambiri mpira womwe umagwera wakuda munthawi imeneyi, ena amataya mwayi panthawiyi.

Ndinganene kuti kudziwona wekha ngati munthu wamwayi ndiwonso mwayi, ndikudzidalira kuti udzagona pamapazi ako chilichonse chomwe moyo ukuponya chiyenera kukhala chotonthoza kwambiri. "Mwayi ndikukhulupirira kuti muli ndi mwayi," adatero Tennessee Williams. Inenso, monga ena ambiri, ndimakonda kukhala mbali yabwino ya Fortuna osayesa mwayi kwambiri, kuopera kuti ndingamukhumudwitse.

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