Kukhala Oyamikira Ngakhale Mukutayika

Sabata yamawa, amayi anga akanakhala azaka 95. Akadakhala okalamba kwambiri, achikulire kuposa zaka 85 zomwe adapeza. Komabe, ndi okondedwa, samakalamba kwenikweni kuti tithe kuwachotsa, ndipo si nthawi yoyenera ngakhale atakalamba. Ndawasowa amayi anga, ndipo, pakupita kwawo, ndimakhala ngati ndataikiranso bambo anga, chifukwa ndimamva ngati mwadzidzidzi Ndinalibe makolo. Komabe, ndinali ndi mwanaalirenji komanso ndinali ndi mphatso yokhala ndi makolo anga kwa zaka zambiri. Mnzanga wapamtima Marion wamwalira ali ndi zaka 49, ndikumusiya ana atatu. Iwo analibe mwayi wokhala ndi amayi awo okalamba nawo, komanso sakanatha kugawana nawo zochitika zawo zosawerengeka, kotero ndikudziwa kuti ndinapatsidwa mphatso ya nthawi ya makolo anga. Ndili wokondwa chifukwa cha izi.

Amayi anga atamwalira, ndinamvanso chisoni china kuposa imfa yawo. Kunali kuzindikira kuti kunalibe m'badwo pamwamba panga woti unditeteze ku zomwe zikanakhala udindo wanga watsopano ngati mkulu wabanja komanso wotsatira pamzere wazungulira zachilengedwe. M'maso mwanga, ndinali ndidakali wachichepere, koma ndimakhala m'malo mwa akazi achikulire m'banja lathu, lingaliro loganiza bwino. Kutayika kwandipangitsa ine kutembenukira mkati kuti ndikulitse osati kukayikira kwanga kokha ndi zovuta, komanso kuthokoza kwanga.

Amayi anga amakhala ndi ine nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina kutaya kwawo kumakhudza kwambiri kotero ndimamva ngati mapapu anga alibe mpweya. Ndimakumbukirabe kutayika kwake ndikatenga foni nthawi ya 4:00 masana, nthawi yomwe timacheza tsiku lililonse, ndikungokumbukira kuti sadzapezekanso. Kwa gawo lachiwirili ndikufuna kugawana nkhani, ndayiwala kuti wapita. Ndikukuwona china chake pawailesi yakanema chomwe ndikudziwa kuti angafune kuwonera, ndikuyiwala, ndinatenga foni yanga kuti ndimuimbire. Ndikumva chisoni kwambiri ndikawona mayi wachikulire, atawerama pang'ono, pa mkono wa mwana wake wamkazi wazaka 50 pamene akuyenda pakati pa malo ogulitsira limodzi, akuyankhula ndikugawana m'dziko lawo lomvetsetsa la mayi-mwana wamkazi . Ndikukumbutsa ndikukuzindikira kulikonse, kutayika kwa amayi anga kumakhalanso kwatsopano ndipo zowawa zomwe zimandibaya zimafulumira komanso mofulumira.

Chifukwa ubale wanga ndi amayi anga udali wolimba komanso wovuta kwambiri, zomwe zidandichitikira ndikumwalira ndizofanana komanso zovuta komanso zovuta. Ngakhale ndimamukonda kwambiri, kuposa mayi wina aliyense wamkulu m'moyo wanga, analinso munthu m'modzi yemwe angandipangitse kuti ndizimva kuperewera pakungolankhula ndi dzanja losavuta kapena nkhope kapena kusanzikana pafoni. Sindinong'oneza bondo atandisiya, chifukwa ndinamuuza kuti ndimamukonda, komabe ndikumva chisoni kuti sitikanakhala ndi ubale womwe ndimafuna ndikufunafuna. Koma, ndikudziwanso kuti adachita zonse zomwe angathe monga amayi anga ndipo ndimawakonda chifukwa cha izi. Kupyolera muubwenzi wathu, ndidaphunzira kuti ndimatha kusankha zokumbukira za amayi anga ndili mwana komanso ndikukula zomwe ndidzakhale nazo kwa moyo wanga wonse.

Monga msonkho kwa amayi anga pazonse zomwe amandipatsa, Mndandanda Wanga Wothokoza ndi wawo:

Ndili wokondwa chifukwa:

1. Chikondi chake chopanda malire kwa ana anga.
2. Zovala zofunda za m'nyengo yozizira, maphunziro kumsasa, ndi tchuthi zomwe adapatsa anyamata anga pomwe sitinakwanitse kugula.
3. Maganizo anga amachitidwe, zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha amayi anga.
4. Kukonda kwanga nyimbo, zaluso, komanso chilankhulo, chifukwa adaonetsetsa kuti ndili ndi maphunziro a piyano, maphunziro ojambula, maphunziro aku Spain, komanso mpando ku San Francisco Ballet.
5. Chikondi changa cha The Nutcracker, chomwe tinkakumana pamodzi nthawi iliyonse tchuthi ndili mwana.
6. Momwe adasekerera moseketsa kufikira atalira, ndikundipangitsa ine kuseka ndikulira nanenso.
7. Kukonda kwanga kuwerenga, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhala ndi buku pafupi ndi bedi lake.
8. Luso langa lophika bwino, chifukwa ndimamuonera akaphika chakudya tikuchezera kukhitchini.
9. Momwe amakondera abwenzi ake, ndikundiphunzitsanso kutero.
10. Momwe adakondera mpongozi wake (mlamu wanga wamkazi ndi mnzake wapamtima) monga momwe adakondera mwana wake wamkazi.
11. Chikondi cha amayi anga ndi kudzipereka kwawo kwa abambo anga, makamaka atadwala matenda ofooka.
12. Momwe amauza ena za kunyada kwake kwa ine ngakhale samatha kundiuza mwachindunji.
13. Kupezeka kwake pa kumaliza maphunziro anga a udokotala ngakhale anali pa chikuku ndipo samakhala bwino.
14. Anandilandira komaliza ngakhale tidasiyana kwambiri.