Makhalidwe Olimbitsa Pamasewera Achinyamata

Posachedwa, ndimkawerenga zomwe mnzake adalemba pama social media zokhudzana ndi gulu la mpira wamwamuna wa Pop Warner. Ndakhala ndikutsatira zolembedwazo kuti ndiwone momwe anyamatawo amapangidwira kumapeto komaliza mpikisanowu. Mnzanga anali atanena kuti adapita munthawi yowonjezera kuti apambane masewerawo. Ndinaganiza ndekha, Oo, izi zimafuna kupirira komanso kupirira moleza mtima . Kuphatikiza apo, ndimaganiza ndekha, Kodi mphunzitsiyu ali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira kuti athe kudziwa mikhalidwe yomwe ingakhudze othamanga ake munthawi imeneyi? Kodi amadziwa wosewera aliyense payekhapayekha mokwanira kuti adziwe yemwe angakwere ndi kukwera nawo mwambowo? Pazaka izi, kodi zochitika zimakhazikitsa machitidwe ena?

Monga mphunzitsi ndekha, komanso mlangizi wama psychology pamasewera, amakhulupirira kuti zochitika ngati izi zimayamba kuwumba umunthu. Umunthu umatanthauzidwa ngati "kuchuluka kwa mawonekedwe omwe amachititsa munthu kukhala wosiyana" (Weinberg ndi Gould, 2015, p. 27). Anthu amakhala ndi zosintha zomwe zimawakhudza m'malo awo. M'masewerowa, makochi adayamba kuwona atsogoleri achichepere omwe adakwera ndipo osewera ena omwe adatama chifukwa cha kukakamizidwa kwamasewera. Nthawi zina palibe njira yodziwira momwe osewera achichepere angachitire akakumana ndi zovuta komanso kukakamizidwa. Chomwe chili chabwino pamipikisano yamtunduwu ndikuti osewerawa ndi achichepere ndipo amatha kudziwa kuti ndi ndani komanso momwe angachitire. Osewera nthawi zonse samadziwa momwe adzachitire mtsogolo. Amatha kusankha kuyesa kusintha machitidwe awo, komabe atha kupunthwa akakumana ndi zovuta. Izi ndizomwe zimakhazikitsa mawonekedwe ndikuphunzitsa maphunziro kupitirira zaka zawo. Imabwerera kukamenya nkhondo kapena kuthawa.

Pali china chake chomwe chinganenedwe pakupanga mawonekedwe ndi ana omwe amakumana ndi masewera omwe amachititsa kukakamizidwa kwambiri. Pamene osewerawa ankayenera kusewera munthawi yowonjezera, ankangosewera. Makochi awa ayenera kuti adakhala odekha komanso machitidwe omwe adalimbikitsa othamanga achicheperewa kuti atuluke ndi kusewera kuti apambane.

Ngakhale pali zikhalidwe zofunikira zomwe zimakhazikika pamunthu, pali mitundu yambiri yomwe ingathandize kupirira komanso kusasinthasintha kwa machitidwe pamasewera. Ndine wonyada kunena kuti gulu lomwe ndikulankhula likuchokera mdera langa (Abington). Anyamata awa akuyenera zonse zomwe akwaniritsa chaka chino. Maphunziro omwe aphunzira nyengo ino adzawatenga moyo wawo wonse. Kudos kwa makochi osakankhira osewera omwe adayimilira kumbuyo pang'ono chifukwa chazovuta, popeza makochi ena akadaponyera osewerawo ku mikango.

Pophunzitsa ana, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti amakula m'njira zosiyanasiyana munthawi zosiyanasiyana komanso munthawi zosiyanasiyana. Kuwalola kukula monga makochi awa, m'masewera opanikizawa akuwonetsa kukhudzidwa kwenikweni kwa osewera komanso thanzi la psyche wawo. Kulola anyamatawa kukhala kunja mwina kudawalimbikitsa kuti apite patsogolo kapena kuwathandiza kuzindikira kuti kusewera mpira sikungakhale chinthu chomwe akufuna. Komanso, ichi chakhala chidziwitso chofunikira kwa anyamata awa komwe adzakwanitse kukula ngati othamanga komanso anthu pawokha. Apanso, Tithokoze kwa Abington Raider ndi makochi awo.