Kumangomvera Ana Atha Kuchita Zodabwitsa Podzidalira

Ndi ana ndi akulu omwe akubisala kunyumba masiku ano, uwu ndi mwayi wabwino kwa akulu kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi ana awo. Njira imodzi yothandiza kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi ana komanso achinyamata ndiyo kukhala ndi nthawi yowamvera. Mwa kumvera malingaliro awo ndi nkhawa zawo, akulu atha kukhala othandiza kwambiri pothandiza ana munthawi yovutayi. Mliriwu usanachitike, ana adawona achikulirewo m'miyoyo yawo pafupifupi theka la nthawiyo. Hafu inayo anali kusukulu kapena kusamalira ana. Masiku ano, malo okhala akhoza kuyika mavuto pabanja, komabe itha kukhala mwayi wolumikizana ngati banja. Ndi kulumikizana uku, pamene achikulire atenga nthawi yolankhulana ndi ana awo, zomwe zitha kuthandiza ana kukulitsa kudzidalira komwe kungawapindulitse pamoyo wawo wonse.

Palibe m'nthawi yathu yonse pomwe mabanja amakakamizidwa kuti azikhala nthawi yayitali limodzi monga amachitira masiku ano. Anthu akamakhala nthawi yayitali kutali ndi kwawo, nthawi zambiri amakhala alibe nthawi yambiri yocheza ndi ana m'nyumba zawo. Zotsatira zake, ana amaphunzira msanga kuti amakhala ndi nthawi yochepa ndi makolo awo ogwira ntchito. Kupatula apo, achikulire m'miyoyo yawo nthawi zambiri amakhala atatopa ataweruka kuntchito ndipo mwina sangakhale ndi malingaliro abwino oti atha kukhala nawo nthawi yayitali, osamamvetsera mwatcheru pazomwe akunena. Izi zitha kupangitsa kuti ana ndi achinyamata azikhulupirira kuti ndiwachiwiri m'malingaliro a akulu m'miyoyo yawo. Atha kukhulupirira kuti ndi malingaliro am'mbuyo omwe angapangitse kudziona ngati otsika komanso / kapena kusadzikhulupirira okha.

Ndi mliri wa COVID-19 womwe ukutisungabe kunyumba, ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuti muzikhala ndi nthawi yomvera ana anu. Kodi ayenera kunena chiyani? Kodi akuganiza chiyani? Iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yofunika kwambiri kuti muwadziwe bwino ana anu m'njira zomwe simunakhalepo nazo kale. Mwayi wowawonetsa kuti ndi ofunika ndipo zomwe akunena ndiofunika.

Imodzi mwa mphatso zazikulu kwambiri zomwe tingapatse ana ndi nthawi yathu. Tikamamvetsera kwa iwo ndikusamala malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro awo adziko lapansi, zitha kupanga zodabwitsa pakudziwona kwawo. Ana akamaganiza kuti zomwe akunena ndizofunika, amayamba kuzindikira kufunika kwawo komanso kudzidalira.

Makolo sangazindikire phindu lomwe mwana amakhala nalo ngati muli wofunitsitsa kutenga nthawi ndikukambirana nawo. Ganizirani izi ... Nthawi zambiri nthawi yomwe anthu akulu amalimbikira kwambiri polankhula ndi ana ndi pomwe amawongolera machitidwe awo kapena kuwalangiza kuti achite monga kukonzekera sukulu kapena kuchita homuweki. Ganizirani za momwe zidalili zapadera kwa inu mukadali mwana ndipo munthu wamkulu m'moyo wanu anali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe mumanena? Mwina agogo, kapena ngati mudakhala ndi mwayi, kholo limatenga nthawi yolankhula nanu ndikulimbikitsani pazomwe mumaziwona zofunika. Izi ndi nthawi zapadera.

Lero, ndi ana ndi akulu omwe amakhala m'nyumba, nthawi yomwe mumatenga yolumikizana ndi ana mnyumba yanu imatha kulipira kwa zaka zikubwerazi. Zitha kuwapatsa kudzidalira kuwona kuti alidi ofunika padziko lapansi, ndipo izi zitha kusintha moyo. Ana omwe amawona kufunikira kwawo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zapamwamba. Ana omwe amawona kufunikira kwawo amatha kusankha zinthu zabwino zomwe zimawapindulitsa m'miyoyo yawo.

Kungomvera ana akulankhula sikuwoneka ngati nkhani yayikulu poyamba. Komabe, nthawi yomwe mumathera kuwamvera ndi nthawi yomwe amadziona kuti ndi ofunika. Zili ngati kubzala mbewu zamtsogolo zomwe zimatha kukula ndikulimba mtima. Ndi chikhulupiriro chomwechi mwa iwo chomwe chitha kuwathandiza kukhala olimba mtima kuti azichita maloto awo mtsogolomo.