Art of High-Stakes Psychological Diagnosis Pt. 2

Mu Gawo 1, ndidanena kuti kugona mwachangu pachidziwitso chilichonse chazomwe mukumva kukhutiritsa kumatha kuchepetsa mwayi wanu wothana ndi mavuto am'mabanja. Ndinalimbikitsanso njira yopitilira matumbo anu okhutitsa kuti mutha kumenyetsa msomali pamutu ndikukhala ndi mwayi wothana ndi mavutowo.

Ndikazindikira, sindimangotanthauza mawu owoneka bwino amawu. Kuyika wina kukhala watsankho, wosagwirizana kapena wodziyesa ndiwonso matenda. Sindikusiyanitsa pakati pa kuyitanira mayina ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwathu kwatsiku ndi tsiku ma tekinoloje ena, monga kunena kuti, "Mkazi wanga wakale ndi wankhanza."

Kunena zowonekeratu, ndilibe vuto ndi mayitanidwe. Tonsefe timazichita, molunjika, mwanjira zina kapena pansi pathu. Palibe cholakwika mwamakhalidwe poyitana mayina. Akanakhalapo, ndiye kuti kumutcha Hitler chilombo kukanakhala chiwerewere.

Pitilizani kuyitanira mayina, koma muyenera kukhala ndi inu nokha kuti mumenyetse msomali pamutu. Osangotchula anthu dzina lililonse lotembereredwa limabwera m'maganizo. Ngati akuyambitsa mavuto, amenyeni komwe amakhala ndi china chake chomwe chimakhazikika ndikumamatira, dzina lililonse lomwe lingathetse mavuto am'mabanja moyenera.

Kusankha dzina loyenera kumafuna kulingalira za mafunso atatu osiyana:

1. Kodi vuto ndi chiyani?
2. Nchiyani chimalimbikitsa mavutowa?
3. Ndi matenda ati ndi njira ziti zomwe zingathandize kwambiri pakusintha khalidweli?

Mwa gawo 1, ndawonetsa njirayi poyigwiritsa ntchito pamavuto omwe othandizira a Trump ndi Trump. Ndichitanso zomwezo pano ndikuyang'ana kuchipatala kuchokera ku dziwe lalikulu lazomwe angapeze kuti apambane zomwe zandisangalatsa posachedwa: dziwani zonse , yomwe imagwiritsa ntchito mayendedwe atatu osavuta.

1. Nthawi zonse samanyalanyaza umboni wonse wotsutsa.
2. Nthawi zonse muzichita ngati kuti ndinu woweruza amene akutsogolera zokambirana zilizonse zomwe mungalowe.
3. Gwiritsani ntchito zizoloŵezi zochepa chabe zongopeka zomwe zonse zimakhala, "Ndikudziwa kuti inu ndinu ndani koma ine ndine ndani?" kuti abwezeretse zovuta zonse kwa wotsutsa.

Pofufuza momwe amagwiritsira ntchito njira yodziwira zonse, ndikuyankha funso liti lakuzindikira? Choyamba, kumene. Makhalidwe abwino ndi malo abwino kuyamba ngati mukufuna kupitirira kumasulira kwanu kopanda tanthauzo. Makhalidwe abwino ali ndi mwayi wokhala owonekera bwino. Zimapangitsa kuti muzindikire momwe zinthu sizingatheke chifukwa choti titha kuwona zikhalidwe, koma sitingathe kuwona zomwe zikuyambitsa.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati muwona winawake mosasintha ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse, mutha kubetcha kuti njira yodziwira zonse ndivuto. Simungakhale otsimikiza kuti akugwiritsa ntchito koma mutha kupanga malingaliro ophunzirira, ndipo mutha kupanga umboni wotsimikizira izi.

Popeza mukubetcha kuti njira yodziwira zonse ndivuto, ndiye muyenera kuyang'ana momwe angagwiritsire ntchito. Kodi wina amaigwiritsa ntchito pamitu yonse kapena ochepa? Mwachitsanzo, wina akhoza kuyigwiritsa ntchito pazandale, mwamakhalidwe, zachuma ndi chipembedzo kwinaku akuphunzira mokhulupirika kwina kulikonse - pantchito, kapena kusukulu. Mwachitsanzo, mungapeze wophunzira wazomangamanga yemwe ali tcheru kuti aphunzire mkalasi koma zowala za mwezi ngati njira yodziwira intaneti.

Pitani ku funso lachiwiri: Nchiyani chimawalimbikitsa kuti agwiritse ntchito njira yodziwira zonse? Mutha kuwafunsa koma simungathe kupeza yankho lolunjika. Anthu sadziwa zomwe zimawalimbikitsa ndipo nthawi zambiri safuna kudziwa. Mukafunsa anthu ngati ali ndi zovuta zina, mwachitsanzo, "mumagwiritsa ntchito fomu yodziwitsa zonse chifukwa muli ndi chida paphewa?" ngakhale atafuna kuti ayankhe molunjika apitiliza kukazungulira pakatikati pamdima wamaganizidwe awo, osapeza umboni uliwonse ndikufotokozera zomwe akuchita.

Ngati m'malo mwake mumawavomereza, kuwauza zolinga zawo, anganene kuti, "musandiuze momwe ndikumvera!" Palibe chomaliza chomangika pazomwe zimapangitsa, chomwe ndi chifukwa chabwino choyang'anira matenda omwe amachokera pa iwo. Mwachitsanzo, kuyitanira anthu osankhana mitundu, achifasizimu, odziletsa okhaokha, okonda zonyansa kapena ma psychopaths onse akuwonetsa zina pazifukwa zawo. Mwakutero, zidzakupatsani gawo losazunguliridwa. Amakana, mudzatsimikizanso ndipo palibe komwe mungapeze umboni kapena umboni mwanjira ina.

Kuganiza pazoyambitsa ndikungoganiza kwa munthu m'modzi motsutsana ndi wina. Ndi chifukwa chomwe pakati pa zaka za m'ma 2000 akatswiri azamisala adasiya kuyankhula pazomwe zimapangitsa. Palibe njira yoyesera iwo kuti akhale maziko amphekesera zopanda pake. Koma akatswiri azamisala pamapeto pake adabwereranso ku kafukufuku wazomwe zimapangitsa chidwi chifukwa chimapangitsa kusiyana kwakukulu m'mene mungathetsere vuto.

Anthu omwe ndimawawona ngati akugwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse amatchedwa mayina ena, m'modzi mwa iwo ndi okhulupirira owona, kutengera kafukufuku wakale, wotchulidwa kwambiri pamavuto omwe adalemba, mwa anthu onse, munthu wakutali yemwe amawunikira mwezi ngati wasayansi yamagulu. Buku la Eric Hoffer, Okhulupirira Owona, lidachita bwino chifukwa silimangoyang'ana pazomwe okhulupirira owona amakhulupirira koma MO yawo, machitidwe awo. Anatinso mutha kukhala wokhulupirira weniweni wa chikominisi, fascism, tsankho, chipembedzo, chilichonse - chikhulupiriro chomwe chimalimbikitsa kuti sichinali chifukwa. Sizinali zikhulupiriro zomwe anali nazo koma momwe amawasungira, monga zowona zenizeni, zopanda umboni wotsutsa. Kuzindikira kwanga kwamakhalidwe, kugwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse ndichikhalidwe cha Hoffer wokhulupirira wozindikira. Anthu amagwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse kuti ateteze zikhulupiriro zamitundu yonse. Sizikhulupiriro zomwe amakhala nazo koma momwe amawasungira ndiye nkhaniyo.

Komabe, buku la Hoffer linatsutsa zomwe pofika pano ndizodziwika bwino pazomwe zimapangitsa anthu kuti azigwira motere. Ndi chifukwa chakuti miyoyo yawo ndiyosatsimikizika komanso yotopetsa kotero kuti amagwiritsitsa zolimba pachikhulupiriro, chomwe chimakhala ngati .....

Chifukwa chake pamenepo timapeza chifukwa chimodzi chazovuta zomwe zimachitika. Malinga ndi Hoffer, okhulupirira owona (pakupeza kwanga, anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse) amalimbikitsidwa ndi kusatetezeka.

Koma sindikuganiza kuti ndizosavuta. Ndimawerengera zambiri zomwe zingalimbikitse khalidweli. Okhulupirira owona akhoza kukhala oganiza zaulesi omwe amachita njira yocheperako kuti azimva ngati odziwa zonse kapena atha kukhala oyipa pakuganiza, kuzimiririka kapena kukomoka. Amatha kukhala onyada, kapena otsutsana - osatetezeka kwambiri, monga Hoffer adanenera. Atha kukhala osaganizira zowopsa zakugwidwa ndikudziwika kuti ndi onyenga, kapena amatha kudziwa zoopsa zake, koma khalani ofunitsitsa kuti mukhale anzeru kuti ndiwowopsa. Atha kukhala atsogoleri opusitsa kwambiri kapena otsatira kwambiri. Ndipo izi ndi kungotchula zifukwa zochepa.

Zindikirani kusiyana komwe kusazindikira zolakwika zomwe zimapangitsa. Kuti titenge chitsanzo chimodzi chokha, ngati kudzikuza kumalimbikitsa kukhulupilira kwawo kowona, muyenera kuwachotsa pamahatchi awo okwera. Koma ngati kusatetezeka kumalimbikitsa okhulupilira owona, kuwaphwasula kumangowapangitsa kudzimva osatetezeka motero kukhala osagwirizana ndikusintha machitidwe awo.

Mwachidule, posanthula, kusiyanitsa pakati pamakhalidwe ndi zolimbikitsira ndikufotokozera matenda omwe amadziwika kuti ndi machitidwe, osati chifukwa - mchitsanzo changa, kugwiritsa ntchito njira yodziwira zonse. Osanyalanyaza zokopa, ndizofunikira pamachitidwe anu kuti mupeze matenda anu. Nthawi zambiri timakhala okhazikika tikalola zongoyerekeza zathu kutsogolera njira yathu yolimbana ndi anthu, koma osawulula zomwe timaganizira pazomwe zimawalimbikitsa. Kuchita izi kumatsegula kutsutsana komwe kumakupangitsani kuti musatumize uthenga. Ndiwo machitidwe omwe mukuyesera kuti musinthe mosaganizira zomwe zimapangitsa, chifukwa chake khalani ndi chidwi ndi khalidweli.

Gawo lachitatu, ndiyankha funso lachitatu ili: Ndi dzina liti ndi njira iti yomwe ingathandize kwambiri pakusintha khalidweli?