Mlembi: Laura McKinney
Tsiku La Chilengedwe: 7 Epulo 2021
Sinthani Tsiku: 16 Meyi 2024
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Chowonongera Chowona Pamavuto Amunthu? - Maphunziro A Psychorarapy
Chowonongera Chowona Pamavuto Amunthu? - Maphunziro A Psychorarapy

Monga katswiri wama psychology nthawi zina ndimafunsa anthu omwe akuvutika ndi zowoneka zenizeni. Ambiri mwa iwo amadziwika kuti sakhulupirira Mulungu kapena sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu. Sakhala opsinjika kapena okhumudwa, koma amadzipeza okha akungoyang'ana pa "lumo" lokhala ndi moyo. Zachidziwikire, sizoyenera kuti ndiwakakamize kuti ndiwatengere dziko lapansi, chifukwa chake ndimayesetsa kuwathandiza kuti agwirizane ndikupanga mtendere ndi wawo. Ngakhale izi zimakhudzanso zoyesayesa zokhazikitsa ndi kukulitsa momwe akumvera, zina mwazosangalatsa zanzeru, luntha komanso kuzindikira zimakambidwanso.

Tsopano ndikuvomereza kuti sindine katswiri pankhani ya sayansi, kapangidwe kake, biology, kapena zamulungu koma ndikukhulupirira kuti ndimamvetsetsa za sayansi yoyambira komanso malingaliro amunthu. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu erudite komanso ophunzira kwambiri kuposa ine adalemba za izi ndi zina zofananira (mwachitsanzo, Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, Sam Harris, Friedrich Nietzsche, Albert Camus, Soren Kierkegaard, ndi Carl Sagan kungotchulapo ochepa). Komabe, monga katswiri wama psychology, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndine woyenera kupereka lingaliro chifukwa ndaphunzira mbali zonse zaubongo wamunthu komanso kukula kwa malingaliro amunthu. Ndipo malingaliro, zikuwoneka, sichinthu china koma chongotulutsa ubongo; "Chinsinsi" chake chodziwikiratu chomwe chimapereka kufunikira kwakusintha komanso mwayi wosintha.


Nachi chitsanzo cha zomwe ndimakonda kukambirana nthawi yanga ndi agnostics komanso omwe sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu omwe ali ndi chithandizo chazomwe zilipo, kapena kuthana ndi kukhalapo pomwe munthu ali ndi malingaliro adziko lapansi.

Pongoyambira, ndiziwunikanso "mizati" yopezeka kuti ndikhale omveka. Ndiwo kudzipatula, udindo, zopanda tanthauzo komanso imfa. Kudzipatula kwakuti tili tokha kwathunthu m'miyoyo yathu. Palibe amene angadziwe zomwe takumana nazo kapena kumva ululu wathu ngakhale tili pafupi nawo. (Zachisoni, "Vulcan mind meld" yotchuka kulibe - osatinso pano ...). Tadzipatula kwathunthu kwa anthu ena onse poti zomwe takumana nazo mlengalenga zimangopezeka mwa ife okha muubongo ndi malingaliro athu. Monga zimakhalira mu ubongo ndi malingaliro a ena. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti tiyenera kukhala osungulumwa. Titha kulumikizana ndikofunikira ndi miyoyo yodzipatula mofananamo ndipo potero timadzipiritsa tokha, mpaka kufika polemetsa pakudzipatula komwe kulipo.


Chotsatira ndi udindo. Ili ndi lingaliro loti moyo ukhale wabwino, ndikofunikira kuvomereza kuti zinthu zambiri sizimachitika "pazifukwa" kapena ngati gawo la "mapulani apamwamba". Zimachitika chifukwa cha zinthu zomwe zimachitika mwangozi komanso mwangozi ndizomwe zimayendetsa zomwe zimatsimikizira zomwe zimatichitikira m'moyo. Ngakhale tili ndi mphamvu zochepa pakulamulira miyoyo yathu, tili ndi udindo pazotsatira, zabwino ndi zoyipa, pazambiri zomwe timasankha ndi zochita zathu chifukwa chinthu chokha chomwe tingathe kuwongolera m'miyoyo yathu ndi machitidwe athu. Izi zimatipatsa mphamvu kuti tizitha kukhala opanda nkhawa komanso opanda mphamvu chifukwa kunena kuti zomwe zimatichitikira m'moyo wathu wonse kuzinthu zakunja sizitipatsa mphamvu. Sitili ngati masamba omwe agwera mumtsinje waukulu, ongoyendetsedwa pang'ono ndi mafunde ndi mafunde. M'malo mwake, tili ngati anthu omwe ali m'mabwato ang'onoang'ono omwe amatha kupalasa ndikuwongolera pamlingo winawake ngakhale atatengeredwa kumtsinje wamlengalenga ndi nthawi mosasunthika kupita mtsogolo mosadziwika.


Kenako pakubwera zopanda tanthauzo. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, ndipo monga ndikambirana zambiri pansipa, ili ndiye lingaliro palibe tanthauzo lokonzedweratu, cholinga kapena tanthauzo lenileni pamoyo wamunthu. Tanthauzo limawerengedwa kuti ndi luso lopangidwa ndi anthu, osati china chake chachilengedwe kapena miyoyo yathu. Chifukwa chake, m'chilengedwe chopanda tanthauzo, zili kwa anthu kuti apange tanthauzo lawo. Ena amatero pokhala ndi ana, ntchito yopindulitsa, maubale achikondi, zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa, luso, chuma, kapena njira ina iliyonse yomwe angapezere chisokonezo.

Potsiriza pamabwera imfa. Kubwerera kuzikumbukiro za moyo wathu wakale. Kutha kwathunthu komanso kosatha kwa moyo wathu monga zamoyo zodziwa, zodzidziwitsa. Kutayika kwathunthu kwa zonse zomwe tili, zonse zomwe tikudziwa, ndi zonse zomwe tili nazo kuphatikiza tokha. Chomwe chimatsalira kwa ife tikamwalira ndichinthu chakuthupi cha matupi athu otenthedwa kapena owola ndipo, ngati tikukondedwa, kupezeka kwathu pokumbukira ena.

Ngati wina avomereza zenizeni zakomwe kulibe umunthu wopembedza, kodi angatani kuti apange nawo mtendere? Kodi ndi mayankho ati opanda mayankho amafunso okalamba omwe tidakhala nawo? Cholinga chathu ndi chiyani? Kodi ndizo zonse zomwe zilipo? Kodi zonsezi zikutanthauza chiyani, ndipo chotsatira nchiyani?

Choyamba, ndikofunikira kuvomereza kuti fizikiya (classical, relativity and quantum mechanics) ndichida chofotokozera bwino komanso chotsogola chomwe anthu adapeza kapena kupanga. Tidagawa ma atomu, tidagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zina monga magetsi amagetsi, tidapanga zaka zodziwitsa, titumiza amuna kumwezi, ndikuwona m'mphepete mwa chilengedwe chowoneka, ndikuyamba kutulutsa zinsinsi zambiri zachilengedwe zoteteza chilengedwe ndi nthawi, nkhani ndi mphamvu, ndi moyo womwe. Zowonadi, zoneneratu zomwe malingaliro a Einstein adapanga zaka zopitilira zana zapitazo zikuwonetsedwa lero (mwachitsanzo mafunde okoka ndi mabowo akuda).

Zikuwoneka, chifukwa chake, kuti fizikiya ndi injini yomwe idapanga ndikuyendetsa chilengedwe chonse. Mosakayikira ipanga chemistry yomwe, pamapeto pake, ipanga biology yomwe imasintha ndikusintha pakapita nthawi. Malingaliro awa, moyo wamunthu udachitika padziko lino lapansi chifukwa chongowonjezera chabe koma mayendedwe osapeweka azinthu ndi mphamvu zopanga njira za atomiki, zathupi ndi zamankhwala zomwe zimatsogolera kumoyo. Palibe mlengi, palibe wanzeru wanzeru kapenanso wina ayi. Njira zosapeweka za zinthu ndi mphamvu mosaganizira komanso mopanda tanthauzo kumvera malamulo a sayansi.

Nthawi zonse pakakhala zochitika zapadera koma zosasinthika, zotsatira zake zimangokhala zokhazokha komanso zochitika zamoyo-kupangika kwakanthawi kwamolekyulu komwe kwakanthawi kumawoneka ngati kosagwirizana.Zina mwazinthu zomwe zimawoneka kuti ndizofunikira kuti moyo wa "kupita patsogolo" kapena woganiza zichitike ndi nyenyezi yokhazikika m'dera lokhalamo mlalang'amba; pulaneti lamiyala pamalo okhalako a nyenyezi yokhazikika ndi magnetosphere otetezera (omwe amateteza ma biomolecule osalimba kuchokera ku kuchuluka kwakukulu kwa mphamvu zowononga za dzuwa ndi zakuthambo); madzi amadzi padziko lapansi; satellite yokhazikika (mwezi umalepheretsa dziko lapansi kusintha kwakukulu, komwe kumawononga nyengo); ndi chimphona choyandikana ndi mpweya ngati Jupiter chomwe chimagwira ntchito yoyeretsa ndi kuteteza madzi poteteza dziko lapansi kuti isagundane ndi omwe angakhudze moyo womwe ungayambike komanso moyo womwe ulipo.

Pali nyenyezi zosaneneka zomwe zili ndi mapulaneti m'chilengedwe chowoneka. Akuti mwina pali mapulaneti mamiliyoni ambiri omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi chilengedwe cha mlalang'amba wathu wokha. Popeza akuganiza kuti kuli milaliliyoni ya milalang'amba m'chilengedwe chonse, kuchuluka kwa maplaneti otere "onga dziko lapansi" okhala ndi zamoyo zosinthika kwambiri komanso zanzeru zimasokoneza malingaliro. Mwanjira ina, zochitika zenizeni zomwe zimatulutsa moyo zitha kukhala zofala.

Chifukwa chake, mumalingaliro akulu azinthu, momwe anthu amakhalira ali ngati zamoyo zina zonse. Kukhalapo komwe kumayendetsedwa ndi zofunikira zamoyo ndi kubereka.

Ngakhale zili choncho, anthu amatha kupanga, kupeza ndi kuchotsa "tanthauzo" ndi "cholinga," ngakhale atamvetsetsa "tanthauzo" ndi "cholinga" monga zolengedwa zokha komanso malingaliro amunthu.

Popanda tanthauzo, moyo ukhoza kukhala wosapiririka kwa anthu ambiri omwe amakana mulingaliro wa mulungu ndikusinkhasinkha zenizeni zenizeni. Amamvetsetsa kuti pakuwona zakuthambo, palibe kusiyana pakati pa munthu ndi bakiteriya. Zachilengedwe, zikuwoneka, zilibe chidwi ndi chisangalalo cha anthu.

Ichi ndi chifukwa chake anthu ambiri amasankha mulungu wongopeka ngati njira yodzithandizira ndi chiyembekezo cha "moyo wosatha," cholinga chapamwamba, tanthauzo lalikulu, ndikuwateteza ku phompho la mantha komanso kukhumudwa komwe " osakhulupirira ”akhoza kutengeka mosavuta.

"Chithandizo" cha malingaliro abwinowa komanso chotsimikizika koma chovuta pamaganizidwe apadziko lonse lapansi, makamaka "kukhumudwa," zikuwoneka, ndi kulingalira, kukondwerera kwakanthawi. Osati hedonism momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira, koma ngati raison d'etre ndi modus vivendi yomwe imayendetsedwa ndi kuyesa kusangalala momwe mungathere popanda kuvulaza kapena kuvulaza ena okhudzidwa. Ntchito yodzikonda kwambiri. Koma kwa ambiri, zomwe zimaphatikizapo ntchito yosangalatsa, kusewera kosangalatsa, maubale abwino, mwina kubereka komanso chikondi. Mwina ngakhale lingaliro lakukulira komanso kulumikizana kwauzimu.

Chifukwa chake, kuti mudziteteze nokha kulumikizana ndi lumo la kungokhala, ngati mungathe kuthana ndi kudzipatula kwakukulu; kutenga udindo pazomwe munthu akuchita komanso zotsatirapo zake zachilengedwe; pangani chinyengo cha tanthauzo ndi cholinga m'moyo; ndi kuvomereza kusayembekezereka komanso kudziwika kosapeweka ndikukhazikika kwaimfa, ndiye kuti munthu akhoza kupanga mtendere ndi moyo wadziko lapansi.

Kapena, wina akhoza kuvomereza mulungu woganiza.

Kumbukirani: Ganizani bwino, Chitani zinthu bwino, Khalani bwino, Khalani bwino!

Copyright 2019 Clifford N. Lazarus, Ph.D.

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Zotsatsa mu positiyi sizikuwonetsa malingaliro anga kapena sizivomerezedwa ndi ine. -Clifford

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