Kodi Kufooka Kwa Ulemerero Kumati Chiyani Zokhudza Ife?

Chiwembu. Poyamba inali yakumidzi yaku America kapena idavalidwa ndi ogwira ntchito mufakitole omwe amafunikira zovala zolimba. Mpaka zidakhala zina.

Zojambula. Akawoneka kuti ndiwokongola pamiyendo ya azimayi, amathandizidwanso ndi nsalu zapamwamba kwambiri, monga silika, ubweya, ndi satini. Mpaka pomwe idasowa kwathunthu. Amayi omwe anali atanyamula misomali m'matumba awo (kuyimitsa kuthamanga m'matangadza awo) amakondwerera. Ndipo iwo omwe amatemberera pantyhose mosakayikira adatuluka ndikuledzera.

Zovala zamkati. Zinali zazitali komanso zodabwitsa kwa amuna ndi akazi. Akachotsedwa mpamene mudzawona masuti apamwamba, madiresi, ndi nsalu zoyenda pansi pake. Tsopano muli ndi mwayi ngati mungapeze m'malo ogulitsira apamwamba, ndipo ngakhale pamenepo, pa intaneti.

Zovala nsapato ndi mapampu . Amuna nthawi ina amadzifolera kuti nsapato zawo ziwalitsidwe Lachisanu usiku, ndikupanga imodzi mwazinthu zazikuluzikulu (kale mukadatha kudziwa zambiri za mnyamata ndi nsapato zake) ndipo azimayi amavala mapampu - otchinga kapena opendekera - kukulitsa mawonekedwe osati miyendo yawo yokha, koma kuyamika china chilichonse chomwe anali atavala. Zipewa. Magolovesi. Lero? Nthawi zina timawawona paukwati, koma makamaka pa phwando la ukwati iwo asanasanduke mapepala pakati pa phwando.

Mutha kufunsa - nchiyani chinandipangitsa kuti ndiziyenda? Chabwino. Ndikuvomereza. Kanema. Ngakhale ndinali nditaumva za moyo wanga wonse, pamapeto pake ndinawona The Philadelphia Story pa Turner Broadcasting. Kuyandikira pamaso panga pazenera kunali zovala zokwanira, zovala zokongola, ndi zovala zopangidwa ndi telala - zinthu zomwe mungayembekezere kuyambira 1940 ku Hollywood koma kuwawona tsopano kwandikumbutsa nthawi yabwino kwambiri. Ngakhale zokambiranazo "zidavala," pomwe ochita sewerowo amagwiritsa ntchito mawu ochenjera komanso mawu omwe amawapangitsa kuti amveke ngati apitilira kalasi ya 9. Ndikukumbukira amayi anga atavala chonchi, ndipo zikhazikitsidwe pazankhani zonse zitatu zazikulu zamadzulo zikumveka choncho. M'malo mokondwerera kuti anthu amawoneka, kuvala, komanso kumveka choncho, zonsezi zimandimvetsa chisoni, ngati kuti ndikulira china chake.

Ndikutsimikiza ngakhale mutandiona ngati wopanda nzeru, ndine wowomboledwa. Chowonadi chikuwuzidwa, pali magawo ena a ine omwe adakondwerera kuvala kwazaka zambiri. Kwa iwo omwe mukuganiza kuti sindiri otetezeka chifukwa ndikulankhula za izi, komabe? Osadandaula. Sindingadzitengere ndekha. Palibe amene angandichititse kuti ndisangalale ndikamagula zenera ku Barney's ku New York, ndikuwona kugula kwakukulu komwe ndingapeze ku Marshall's, kapena kusaka pa eBay chovala chovala chovala mphesa ndikuyesera kuponyera limodzi. "

Mwinamwake ndikudandaula chifukwa cha kutayika kwachikhalidwe. Ngakhale pocheza m'nyumba, kupatula mafuko ena omwe mwina adatsata miyambo ingapo - kupita kunyumba ya wina kukadya chakudya kumatha kutanthauza zokometsera zokhala ndi mbale zamapepala, zikho za vinyo wapulasitiki komanso zofooka zathunthu zasiliva zopaka utoto wowapangitsa kukhala owoneka bwino. CHINA chenicheni, siliva, ndi kristalo zasungidwa, kuyiwalika, kapena kugulitsidwa pa eBay, pomwe mibadwo yatsopano sionetsa chidwi chodzalandira cholowa. Kuvala chakudya chamadzulo kumawoneka kuti kukutanthauza (mwina) kuponyera sweta lumpy pa peya ya ma jeans atang'ambika bondo. Ndipo kuthawa kwinakwake kumatanthauza kuyang'anitsitsa miyendo yaubweya wa munthu wovala zazifupi wokhala pafupi nane. Ndikudziwa. Ndikumveka wonyozeka.

Kodi awa ndi anthu aku America "ofananira" otetezera molimba mtima chonchi? Sindinaganizepo za chilichonse ngati "kalasi". Wina atavala bwino atha kuponyera pamodzi chovala kuchokera ku Target, ndipo sindingadziwe kusiyana kwake. Masiku ano ndimangonena kuti amasamala mokwanira kuti asavala thukuta lawo.

Dierdre Clemente, mu 2015 wake Magazini Yanthawi nkhani yotchedwa Chifukwa Chiyani komanso Ndi liti pomwe aku America adayamba kuvala motere? limafotokoza motere: “Anthu aku America amavala mosavala. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa zovala ndi ufulu-ufulu wosankha momwe tingadziwonetsere kudziko; ufulu wosokoneza pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, okalamba ndi achinyamata, olemera ndi osauka. Kukwera kwa mafashoni wamba kudasokoneza malamulo azaka zambiri omwe adalimbikitsa kukondera kwa olemera komanso zovala zantchito kwa osauka. Mpaka zaka zopitilira zana zapitazo, panali njira zochepa kwambiri zobisa gulu lanu. Munali kuvala — kwenikweni — pamanja lanu. Masiku ano, ma CEO amavala nsapato kuti agwire ntchito ndipo ana oyera okhala kumatawuni oyera amatulutsa ma LA Raider awo kutali kwambiri. Msika wazachuma wapadziko lonse lapansi, msika wazovala zadzaza ndi njira zosakanikirana kuti apange masitayelo awo. ” Akupitilizabe kulemba mndandanda wazomwe tidasinthira kuchokera kuvala, magolovesi okopa akazi ndikumaliza chidutswa chake ndi chifukwa chake, iyemwini, amakonda kuvala wamba. “Ndapereka zaka khumi zapitazi za moyo wanga kuyesera kumvetsetsa 'chifukwa' ndi 'liti' pamene tinayamba kuvala chonchi — ndipo ndapeza ziganizo zambiri. Koma kwa maola ndi zolemba zonse, ndadziwa kale chifukwa chomwe ndimavalira wamba. Zimamva bwino. ”

Chifukwa chake ndiyenera kudzifunsa ngati kuvala kumakhudzadi momwe timamvera kapena momwe timamvera ndikufuna kumva. Chifukwa chiyani ndimakonda kuwonera Mdyerekezi Amavala Prada mobwerezabwereza? Kodi ndichifukwa cha nkhani yopotoka ya Cinderella yomwe imatsata kubadwa kwa Ann Hathaway kukhala zomwe abwenzi ake amaganiza kuti purigatoriyo? Kapena ndikuwona azimayi ovala bwino atadzola bwino, Meryl Streep akuponya chikwama chake cha $ 1500 patebulo la wothandizira wake kapena a Stanley Tucci akuvomereza mawonekedwe ake aposachedwa pomuuza kuti, "Ndikuganiza kuti ntchito yathu yatha pano?" Ndi zonsezi. Palibe amene angandilepheretse kusilira anthu ovala bwino. M'malingaliro mwanga nthawi zonse pamakhala zina zambiri zomwe ndingakwanitse kuthupi kuti zindipangitse kumva bwino momwe ndimawonekera monga pali zinthu zomwe ndingachite kuti ndikwaniritse ubongo wanga. Onse ndi olumikizidwa.

Ndiye timazindikira bwanji kuti pakati pa “Sindikuvala kuti ndisangalatse wina aliyense, chifukwa chake pitani mchenga wa mapaundi” ndipo “Mavalidwe anu amasonyeza kuti mumalemekeza ena komanso anthu ena?” StylishlyMe.com a Vanessa Rodriguez amatipatsa maupangiri a momwe tingavalire koma osapitirira mu nkhani yake Momwe Mungavalire Zakale - Malangizo 5 Oyambira Omwe Muyenera Kudziwa. Iye akuvomereza kuti, “Makongoletsedwe achikale alibe ntchito. Mavalidwe akusintha panyanja ndi mapampu ofiira ngamila omwe mumagula lero azikhala ovala zaka khumi kuchokera pano. Kugula ndolo imodzi yabwino ya ngale. Ndi kalembedwe kabwino kwambiri kotha kuvala kuntchito, Lamlungu brunch, kupita kukagula zinthu mumzinda, kapena kuyendera dziko. ” Amaphatikizapo momwe mungavalire zowonjezera, momwe mungadziwonetsere nokha (ma midriffs opanda kanthu, masiketi ofupikira kwambiri, ndi zomata zotseguka) sindiye gawo lalingaliro ili - makamaka zaka za 25 - komanso momwe nsalu zabwino komanso zabwino ndizofunikira, ngakhale muli ndi zovala zapadera zochepa chabe.

Chomwe chiri, kuvala mokongola kuli ngati kuphwanya zinthu zanu zabwino kwambiri anthu akabwera kudzadya chakudya chamadzulo. Ndiko kunena za momwe mumadzionera nokha komanso nthawi yomweyo, "kuchitira" ena zinthu zomwe mudatenga nthawi ndi kuyesetsa kuti muphatikize. Ngati chakudya chikuwoneka ngati chikuwoneka bwino ndikudya bwino pama mbale odyera a Lenox omwe mayi anu adakupatsani kalekale, ndiye kuti kuvala kupita kukagula ndi bwenzi kapena kukwera ndege sikusiyana.

Chifukwa chake ndikufunsani: kodi ndine woponya wopanda chiyembekezo? Kodi ndichifukwa chakuti NDINAONA anthu amavala bwino mu unyamata wanga kuti ndimasokonezeka nthawi zonse chifukwa cha momwe zinthu zasinthira? Mwina. Koma mu positi ya Richlyrooted.com Kubwezeretsanso Luso Losowa la Kuvala, blogger wotchedwa Elsie, wobadwa mu 1988, amagawana malingaliro anga ambiri. Wachinyamata wokondeduyu sanakhalepo mzaka khumi pomwe anthu amangovala zovala zilizonse kupatula ukwati. Ndipo akuvomereza kuti akamalowa m'malesitilanti ndikuwona anthu akudya m'matangi awo, amamva ngati anthu ataya china chake. Elsie anati: "Ndikudziwa kuti mwina zimandipangitsa kukhala ngati mayi wachikulire wopusa polira chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa kavalidwe." “Komabe mavalidwe athu amatikhudza tsiku lililonse pamoyo wathu, ndiye kodi iyi si mfundo yofunika kuikumbukira m'moyo woyesedwa? Pali zinthu zambiri zabwino zomwe zingachitike mukayamba kuvala bwino. Koma monga ndaganizira za izi, chotulukapo chimodzi chofunikira chimaonekera: ulemu. Anthu amatilemekeza tikamavala bwino. Chofunika kwambiri, timaphunzira kudzilemekeza. ”

Chifukwa chake nthawi ina mukadzawona mayi wachikulire wovala tsitsi la platinamu atavala nsapato zazitali zazitali ndi mathalauza ake obisalamo atalowetsedwa mkati mwake atavalidwa ndi kansalu kotchedwa turtleneck poncho kwinaku akuyimba jara karaoke mu bar yomira, dziwani kuti sikunali ngozi kuti ndinali mwina atapanikizika kwambiri panthawiyo. Popeza ndakhala wophunzira wakhama wa amayi anga ovala zovala zazing'ono nthawi zonse komanso mwana wakale wa kanema wokhala ndi malo ofewa aanthu ovala bwino komanso zokambirana zokopa, ndikudziwa kuti mwina ndingowona zotsalira za izi pazowonetsa mphotho pa TV. Munthu yekhayo amene ndikuyimira, komabe, ndi ine. Ndipo ndimazitenga mozama.